Any man needs to be prepared for the child's birth. Councils how to bring up the ideal father.
Instruction
1. The period of pregnancy has to be perceived as the happiest of the moments in life of spouses. Make so that your man perceived your state as something wonderful, unusually joyful. Is not necessary under the influence of stereotypes about capriciousness of pregnant women in every possible way to annoy the husband, to force to run at night in shop behind ice cream, without the reasons to take offense, referring to hormones. Behave naturally, try to enjoy this moment with the spouse. Talk about the kid, you spend more time together.
2. Remarkably, when the man shows interest, to everything that is connected with pregnancy and to the birth of the kid. Support in it this hunting. It is possible to resemble together courses, to read the corresponding literature, to watch special video. Let your husband will become the full-fledged participant. Only you should not insist on that the husband was present during childbirth as it can serve as the real psychological trauma for the man.
3. Together prepare the house, before appearance of the kid. Make the list of all necessary, you go shopping, allow the husband to participate in the choice of clothes and things for the child. Consult on the husband as it is better to place children's furniture.
4. If the man does not iron a stomach, does not talk to the child, you should not focus attention on it. To ask, or to demand to show sensuality incorrectly. It will cause unpleasant emotions in the man. Such behavior does not mean at all that the man does not love you and does not expect births a baby. Perhaps, he did not adapt to a situation yet, or otherwise perceives a situation. Give him time, do not take offense and do not lament.
5. When the kid is born, do not limit his communication with the father. Even if the man ineptly holds the child, slowly and clumsily looks after him, all the same praise, encourage the husband. It has to contact to the child as much as possible. You ask it to help you with bathing of the kid, placing emphasis on his reliable strong hands which will not drop the baby. Over time, the young father will have a skill, he will carry out any cares of the child dexterously and quickly.
6. Encourage, you praise the man for the slightest good luck and advance. You thank him for the fact that he presented you the most great happiness in the world, the role of the man in planning of the child, his birth is important, estimate its importance.