Friendship between the man and the woman – not it an unusual occurrence as we got used to think. Another thing is that under these relations not so friendly feelings quite often disappear. If you caught yourself on a thought that absolutely wishes to make the husband of the friend, it is necessary to take business in hand.
Instruction
1. For a start you need to realize that purely friendly relations between two people of a different floor practically never happen. As a rule, either one, or another, or both think of making the relations closer at once. It also is clear. Friendship is born on the basis of sympathy and if between two same-sex people it is the final of the relations, then between people of different floors of sympathy it is very difficult not to go further. However if the man and the woman do not go further friendship, so one of them does not want to come for this framework.
2. Think of the one which of you is such brake for development of love – you or your friend. If you latently have long ago his sympathy, however he does not show it in any way, think of why it so. Perhaps, all of you time are surrounded by admirers, and he considers you too inaccessible, or he just too modest, and everything does not dare to hint you about the feelings in any way. In this case you should take business in hand and to make everything that it understood that it too to you is not indifferent.
3. Another matter if your friend himself keeps you at arm's length. Means, he in an emphasis does not see in you the woman, and you should correct it. It will be quite easy to make it to you, you well know it. Think of what type of women is pleasant to it and that to you to make to approach this ideal. At the same time change intelligently. If it likes blondes, and you the brunette, do not start immediately to hairdressing salon being clarified. Investigate a question more deeply. Find out what attracts it in blondes. Perhaps, in this image he sees the thoughtless laugher. In case your manner of behavior cardinally differs from this image, change of color will give nothing. Try to change internally, and it is very possible that it will begin to look at you not only as at the friend soon.
4. Sometimes happens so that men see in the friend's woman by inertia – got used to be on friendly terms at institute, at work, and so it also proceeds. In this case the woman needs to play on a gregarious instinct, to a degree inherent in each man. In other words to force to rotate around itself the mass of admirers. Having seen such interest in the still to the girlfriend, the man will surely wonder that they see in her it that is not seen by him. And after this question he will surely see in you the woman and will join ranks of your admirers.