It is very often possible to observe how behind quite ordinary woman there is a line of admirers while ladies of "model" appearance remain for a long time lonely. For the majority it remains the real secret, but actually success in love affairs often depends not on external data, and on internal feeling and psychology of the woman. Today it will be a question of how to force to run for themselves a male and that is necessary to become the wife of the man of the dream.
How to become attractive for men
Many women mistakenly consider that art of seduction is a certain mix between ideal external data and natural charisma.
However it not always has advantage as the male selects for itself the ideal companion according to sets of criteria. In that case, not to remain lonely, it is necessary to get to active work on himself.
Whether you know? The Ancient Egyptian queen Cleopatra is considered the seductress most famous in the history. According to legends, she made such impression on men that its attention was regarded as the real award, and in a night many were ready to pay off the queen with life.
Be slightly inaccessible and unpredictable
Men quite scornfully treat persuasive girls. The stronger sex loves freedom in the actions and in communication, regardless of age and the social status. Therefore after the next pleasant acquaintance the woman should not fill immediately with herself all free space of the man.
Total availability is the main mistake which leads to loss of interest at the stronger sex on the first appointments: why to be interested and try to achieve that that constantly is near at hand. Do not look for with the pleasant man of intended meetings — he has to be interested in your attention.
After the first appointment stop communication for several days, and then suddenly appear. Best of all during this period to refuse offers to the second appointment that will only stir interest in your personality.
Instead in several days make an appointment, accidentally, and on the most interesting place of an appointment tear off a meeting.
It slightly will throw in satellite shock, however its interest will sharply increase as the man by the nature always reaches for novel and unpredictable.
Be improved and develop
Those women who constantly move forward have true success with a strong half, reaching new tops. They draw special attention, they are many-sided, with them always interestingly and informatively to spend free time.
They know what is wanted from life, and successfully overcome various barriers. Such girls cannot but just attract respect and interest.
Whether you know? The well-known sex symbol of the XX century of Marilyn Monroe in usual life including in and intimate proximity, was rather simple. However its image of innocence in combination with sexuality subdued most of men of the middle of century. Any modern model or the actress did not manage to achieve such success to this day.
For this purpose it is necessary to develop constantly, and it is not only about career and progress in work. For maintenance of interest in herself the woman has to work on the personality constantly.
It is possible to achieve success in a new hobby or to find for itself new interesting occupation then to achieve in it skill. It is necessary to work also and on character, its minuses, costs and pluses, improving all merits. If you consider that you reached skill in all possible undertakings and consider yourself the self-sufficient personality, all the same do not stop to develop and look for the new directions.
The world changes prompt rates therefore if to cease to work on itself, there can be the return reaction: the personality and her skills slowly degrade, such girl receives necessary attention only to the short period then she becomes boring.
Be sexual
The sexuality is the main weapon of any woman. It is known that men are visual therefore it is possible to achieve attention external attractiveness without special work.
The inclination instinct to an opposite sex is perfectly developed at people and not to use it not only is silly, but also is pernicious for future relations.
Important! The sexuality of the woman should not turn into platitude — it not only reduces interest, but also often frightens off men.
However to be sexual — does not mean to have ideal appearance and model features. Besides, it does not provide only change of clothes with more revealing or open dresses.
The sexuality has to be transferred by intonation of a voice, gait and behavior, grace. It is specific power, it means development of femininity from which any man cannot resist.
For this purpose the woman needs to monitor for herself, and especially the behavior. The step has to be light, shaking, involving hips to the maximum. It learn on the various master classes and trainings opening a feminine. Also occupations dances or yoga perfectly will be suitable for production of beautiful gait and smoothness of movements.
Apply flirtation arts
Possession of technology of flirtation did not prevent any girl yet. Skillful flirtation is capable to turn any into a desired object and also to draw special attention to itself.
Easy flirting with the man excites in it an instinct of a predator thanks to which it is involved in a game, showing sometimes even an excessive initiative.
It is important! To lose attention of the pleasant man, it is often enough to be mistaken only once. Therefore before each meeting the woman needs to think over carefully not only own behavior, but also various ways of the fast decision of various conflicts and misunderstanding.
The universal way of conquest of the man flirtation does not exist, however such ability is put in the female nature. Therefore at communication with an opposite sex the girl surely should listen to own body and to an intuition.
They will best of all prompt when it is necessary to be to the maximum liberated and when there is quite enough faint smile to strike the man on the spot.
Frequent mistakes
In a pursuit of male attention of the woman resort to various technicians and ways, even to psychological manipulations. But despite this, for many the task to achieve male attention becomes unsolvable. The reasons for such failures there can be a weight, however often the failure on the love front is caused by quite ordinary mistakes.
Among them such are the most widespread:
- Neglect sense of proportion — in communication with the stronger sex it is necessary to know a measure and borders of what can be done and what it is better to refuse. Ladies need to learn to feel that side in communication which you should not cross as even quite ordinary speech or action can lead to decrease in interest at the man. Quite often it can even result in disrespect and hostility from its party.
- The help from the outside — different advisers sometimes do not even represent that occurs in the relations as observe them from outside. Therefore councils in a large number of cases harm the relations. And use of esoterics or magic, love spells, etc. can bring all efforts to naught at all.
- Persistence and manipulations — men do not love it, it often causes in them extremely negative reaction. It is the best of all to use tactics of playfulness and friendliness — communication with the woman has to cause only pleasant feelings and memoirs at the stronger sex.
- Neglect opinion of relatives — friends, acquaintances and family often play a crucial role in the choice of the man. The neglect their assessment becomes very frequent the main stumbling block not only in seduction, but also in further development of the relations.
Councils of psychologists
According to opinion of many experienced psychologists to be pleasant to the man, the woman has to be for it not only the next purpose for gain, but also the ideal worthy for joint life and creation of family.
Learn in more detail how to draw attention of the guy who is pleasant to you.
For this purpose a strong half has to see in the companion:
- the ally — it is desirable to have similar interests and a hobby as joint subjects always not only perfectly bring together, but also strengthen the relations;
- the adherent — identical views on life and the events always give to confidence the man in his choice;
- the competitor — the woman needs to compete, be always independent, it not only attracts interest, but also respect;
- sample — the girl has to become an ideal in every sense to which it is necessary not only to aspire, but also to imitate;
- the tutor — the stronger sex loves the clever ladies capable to give a practical advice and to help with all undertakings;
- the inspirer — the woman has to inspire on various fulfillments and feats.
It is rather simple to achieve male attention. For this purpose the woman needs to work everything on herself, it was able to show all the advantages and always to seek for development. Such companion always uses great attention as she is moderately frank, rather clever and capable to push the half on any achievements and fulfillments.