Some women are given gifts for no reason at all, and others should be content with rare bouquets on holidays. Ability to accept things in a gift - the whole art. There are many cunnings capable to bring the man to that he wanted to please darling more often.
It is always pleasant to receive gifts from men. For women it serves as an indirect indicator of interest in communication with them and meetings. If the elect regularly indulges gifts, shows consideration for the choice of gifts, it means that the girl is pleasant to it, he wants to make an impression on her. You should not justify lack of surprises with low level of income of the man. To give a pleasant gift, it is not necessary to be very rich. If the person is avaricious also in relation to the woman, so one of the important communicative points of the relations is missed. This balance and the man will help to adjust several simple rules will want to give gifts.
The mistake of many women consists in inability to accept something in a gift. According to some psychologists the correct reaction to gifts is shown only by wise and cunning women. Many women need to analyze the behavior. If the man presents something, he waits from the darling of positive and bright emotions. It is very important to give him these emotions. The gratitude has to be generous even if the surprise was not pleasant. It is necessary to express gratitude not only words. The good mood, ease, a radiant look have to accompany process of acceptance of a gift. If the relations became relatives, it is possible to present darling with a passionate kiss. All this allows the man to feel significant. He will surely remember such bright emotions and it will begin the best incentive to give gifts again and again.
It is impossible to abuse the elect for too big expenditure, impracticality of a gift, the unsuccessful choice, an improper occasion at all. It is unpleasant to any man and kills an initiative, beats off desire further to do beautiful acts.
That the man gave gifts more often, it is necessary to remember occasionally generous gifts which were received from him earlier, to express gratitude and to say that the thing was very useful. Such simple reception will help to refresh the positive emotions experienced by both parties in the past with memory of the elect will set thinking on again to make something pleasant for darling.
Any person wants to realize that his efforts were not vain. If the man gives a ring, spirits, something from cosmetics, it is necessary to carry these things or to use them, from time to time reminding of as far as by the way this gift had.
Often the man is not given to the beloved by gifts only because are afraid not to guess with color, the size, or do not represent at all what can be got. The woman can help the elect with this question a little. It is possible to make some hint unostentatiously. Having seen a beautiful thing on the girl passing by, it is worth expressing admiration. It is also possible to find something necessary and very desired in online store and to consult to darling, to learn his opinion. The clever man will understand a hint. If the problem consisted in ignorance of what can be presented, it will be solved.
It is impossible to elicit gifts. It kills an initiative. Men like to think that they make all decisions, and any attempt to manipulate them is perceived as infringement of the choice.
Many modern women too actively emphasize the independence, self-sufficiency. Some directly say what all can independently buy. It is not surprising that after such words they do not want to give gifts at all, especially if there was already a negative experience and the woman scolded the donator instead of gratitude. To give the chance to prove, sometimes it is useful to concede, become more womanly.
If there is a strong wish for attention to itself, it is necessary to give attention to the partner sometimes. Men too very much like to receive gifts. You should not deprive of them such joy.
Gifts should not be too expensive not to put the elect in an awkward situation. From time to time it is possible to arrange it small surprises to show attention, interest. After such manifestations the man himself also will want to give gifts.