Separations and partings... We often miss favourite people, we wait for them. At such moments there is a wish that there was a miracle, and the person just came. Despite of a rain, slush, bad weather, lack of an occasion. Just came also all. Ordinary miracle. What it is necessary to make that this miracle as soon as possible occurred?
1. Think of this person with good feelings. Remember the best moments spent together. Create in the imagination new plots, images, pictures in which you together do something, somewhere you are. For example, present yourself with darling in the mysterious forest. Smells needles delicious, birds sing, the easy breeze blows, beauty and harmony reigns everywhere. You sit on a soft green grass and eat goodies. Imagining it, try to use all receptors of perception: sight, hearing, sense of smell, touch, taste. So you will make a picture which you draw in the imagination, fuller.
2. Think over in what ways it is possible to contact this person. Call him, write SMS or even the usual letter. Find it in the Internet: perhaps, he sits on social networks, chats, in ICQ.
3. Having found the elect, act carefully, but it is resolute. Let to it to feel the person, important and significant for you, emphasize his advantages. Kind of accidentally remind him of its any achievements, progress, outstanding qualities. That it was not similar to flattery, speak and write sincerely, with all the heart. Honestly tell it that you want to see it. Explain why you want it what motives at the same time move you. Straight talk you will cause trust of darling and, perhaps, will be able to understand the feelings better.
4. Invite the person in concrete time to the concrete place. Designate a specific goal of your meeting. Offer the person interesting occupation in which you will be able to be engaged together. Attract a keen interest of it.
5. If the person refuses a meeting with you, politely and softly ask it to explain you causes of failure. Perhaps, he not so understood something or maybe at him many important and urgent issues. In case of refusal you do not hurry to snatch on the person with indignations and reproaches. Try to listen quietly to explanations and to understand his point of view. It is useful to put himself to the place of other person.
6. If the person elected by you in any does not wish a meeting with you, take it for granted and calm down. Switch to something another. Meet friends, communicate to relatives. Find to yourself hobby which will absorb you with the head. Paint the day so that there was no time left for empty dreams.
7. Think what in your behavior pushed away from you the person. Learn for yourself a lesson on the future not to repeat the same mistakes. Perhaps, you were too egocentric? Were interested in affairs and cares of darling a little, did not pay him enough attention? Find in yourself such quality over which, in your opinion, it would be necessary to work, and start.