The woman who sees the coming crash of the relations is in a condition of a grief and confusion. At this moment it is very difficult to make any sensible decisions on the future.
Instruction
1. The decision on a divorce needs to be made without fail independently. Remember that this decision will change all subsequent life. Before divorcing, well contemplate a problem. For a start calm down. Ask yourself: "why and why I do it?". So you will be able to understand better in the circumstances, to understand what really does not suit you. Try to understand whether it is necessary to try to keep family whether it is possible to change a situation still.
2. After you carefully consider everything, you will be able to see an ultimate goal. You will understand that you specifically want to receive from these relations and how to achieve all this. There are also such situations when independently to be defined it is very problematic. In this case be not guided by experience of numerous acquaintances. The visit to the psychologist will become the best way out. The expert attentively will listen to you and also will help to understand competently in the circumstances your family. Only the professional in the area really will help you to understand because of what everything occurred and to exclude these causes of the conflicts in the future. With its help you will understand whether you are ready to enter fight for the relations or it is better to choose a divorce.
3. If to the psychologist you do not wish to go, then take a clean sheet of paper. On it write a number of questions which will help you to estimate own attitude towards the family. Mentally answering all these questions, you will be able accurately to formulate in the head all that it is difficult to put into words. Thanks to it you will weigh all pluses and minuses. As a result make the justified decision.