In family the man has to be the main thing, any woman wants to feel absolutely safe. How to help the husband to become the head of the family?
Instruction
1. The first that the woman needs to know, you should not undertake the husband's duties. Even if you are sure that you will cope better. Leave all to the man, or he will just get used that do not need it, and will quietly shift all burden to you. It is impossible to kill in the man desire to take the initiative.
2. Show the spouse the dependence on it. You say that would not cope and at it it turns out much better. Men prefer the weak and fragile women demanding their protection.
3. Independently you ask the husband about the help. It is heavy to man to guess your requirements, and the offense and a quarrel can be avoided if just to ask about service for darling. Even if the husband often forgets about promises, be not upset, men have so many cases and thoughts in the head. He will be grateful to the careful spouse who without excess reproaches, will quietly remind of the promised affairs.
4. Surely you praise the spouse for everything that he does, for the slightest progress. Be not afraid to go too far, the man will want to reach an ideal what his spouse sees. Such regular praise, stimulates desire to make more, to correspond. It is a good method to raise a self-assessment of the man and to give to self-confidence.
5. Especially in public emphasize domination of the husband. Tell how he well copes with all affairs, solves any family problems. You feel protected, near the reliable man. It is not necessary to discuss shortcomings and misses of the husband with girlfriends, show respect always, he the best, already only for the fact that it yours, you are proud of the choice.
6. Leave the last word for the man. Even if you discuss problems together, state the point of view, do not specify, and the husband has to make the final decision. Thanks to harmonious relationship and trust, the spouse will always consider your opinion and the best will make the decision for all. As well children have to know that the word of the father the law which is not subject to discussion.
7. Your man, undoubtedly, strong and responsible, but nevertheless the person having the right for a mistake. Do not wait from the spouse of everything and at once, you understand position. It is not necessary to demand more than what the man can give. If he began something do not hurry to do the spouse, give him time, trust the beloved husband.