The decision to connect the life to darling – an important event in life of everyone. But to venture to make the proposal, it is necessary to collect will in a fist.
Even if couple meets long ago, and their joint future does not raise doubts at anybody of acquaintances, all the same, the man very often experiences nervousness before making proposal of the beloved.
As to the man to decide to call the darling in marriage
If the young man not too brisk on lives, such decision can be given it hardly. Indecisive people often weigh everything pros and cons, think over different options of succession of events and make the decision, usually, very long.
However you should not be afraid to make the proposal of the darling and the only girl. If you are sure that she sincerely loves you, most likely, your soulmate with pleasure of signs it. If you are stopped economic instability in the country, fear not to be capable to provide family, you need to understand that nobody is insured from banal unemployment. But if you the normal person are also not going to live off the soulmate, she with pleasure will help you at a difficult moment.
You should not forget that it is easier to go through difficult times not on the single, and together.
Besides, desire to continue the sort, to have children is natural to any modern man. It is better to bring children in youth because with age there will be less than forces on their education and heavier will be to find mutual understanding in family.
As to the woman to push the beloved on acceptance of crucial decision
There are situations when the woman understands that the man very much loves it and wants to be only with it, but after all does not receive from him treasured proposal. Then it needs to accelerate a few events and to push this serious decision loved to acceptance. It is the best of all to hint that it not against to become his wife delicately. At the same time it is important to describe what will be its future – fragrant pies and fresh soups, the washed linen and the ironed-out shirts. And you will always be near, and need every time will disappear to take you in the evening home. It is necessary to become for the man not only the good mistress, but also the loyal friend that he did not represent the future without you any more.
It is also possible to give an example of happy marriage of your acquaintances or friends.
The only thing that you should not do is to press on the man and to take offense that he did not make the decision yet. Usually such behavior causes opposite reaction – desire to do everything in defiance. It is a little efforts and patience, and the treasured proposal will be made.