Some divorced women without special difficulties find the man who becomes the husband and the father of their children on for the rest of the life. Others, having the first bad experience of a marriage for memory of which there were children, unsuccessfully try to start a new family.
Instruction
1. Unfortunately, in society the desire to connect itself with the "divorcee" having the child from the previous marriage is perceived negatively. But, fortunately, after all there are men who are to it kindly favorable disposed. They accept such marriage for several reasons. Know that your advantage - presence of children as the proof of fertility and also independence and responsibility, you already lived alone and solved all family problems without assistance. Observations of the man of mother's relations with the child help it to draw a conclusion on character of the potential wife. So do not despair, matrimony with the woman who has children, does not frighten men if they prefer marriage of barchelor life.
2. To find the necessary partner not easy. The woman with the child needs to have accurate criteria for selection of the man, perhaps, even to be mercantile, she is responsible not only for the personal wellbeing, but also for life of the children. The main thing, after the divorce do not focus only on the house, work and children: you are published, communicate with friends. It is possible to be registered on a dating site, the relations sometimes entered develop into something serious. Pay attention to sports clubs, various technical forums: among their visitors there are many men.
3. Try not to transfer sins of the former spouse to all men. Analyze the list of its mistakes and be more attentive to behavior of the alleged partner. Whenever possible visit the psychologist to get rid of bitterness of the former relations and not to look for the person with negative qualities of the previous husband. Such mistake is quite often made by the divorced women.
4. Remember that absolutely unreliable constantly to remind people around as it is heavy to you to bring up the child of one. But you should not hide presence of children from the potential spouse. It is a big mistake which can be apprehended by the man as notorious deception.
5. Do not worry that the "new" father will always remember that he raises not the children. It does not mean at all that between him and the child the benevolent, friendly relations based on respect, interest and mutual trust will not be able to arise.
6. Do not forget that you have to be always attractive and charming. It means a good hairstyle, tidy clothes, trim shapes and an open, benevolent smile. It erases the fatigue traces which are frightening off men from a face.