The ceremony of a modern courtship is that future groom, itself or by means of intermediaries (parents, matchmakers), is a suitor for the hand at parents of the darling. To this ceremony the ceremony proposal directly precedes the girl. The main difference of a courtship of our times from a ceremony, let us assume, the 16th centuries, that young people solve whom to themselves to choose in partners in life, earlier for them parents made the decision.
It is required to you
- - strict suit,
- - flowers 2 bouquets.
Instruction
1. In the beginning it is necessary to make proposal to the girl. It can be done in different ways. You can tell directly a phrase "Marry me!" or to make it in the veiled form. The offer needs to be done in sober mind, in the easy pleasant atmosphere, confidentially. It has to go from heart. If you received affirmative answer on the offer, it is possible to start preparation of a courtship.
2. Further young people have to report about the decision to parents. A certain day in which the groom dressed in a strict suit and with two bouquets in hands (one for the bride, another – for her mother), is in the exact time to the bride's parents is for this purpose appointed. It is possible to make an appointment in the neutral territory, for example, in cafe or restaurant. The visit has to be short.
3. You have to repeat the offer on a wedding and ask the girl's hands for her father. Then if the head of the family agrees, then he puts a hand of the daughter in yours.
4. It is the best of all if you date a courtship for a family celebration or significant date. In such atmosphere the meeting will take place in a favorable and natural situation. You can take support group in the form of parents, godparents or close friends. Only you watch that persons accompanying you there were no more than three people.
5. After receiving consent of parents of the bride to a wedding you can begin negotiations about preparation for an action. Make the list of estimated expenses, make predesign of guests and discuss the sum of expenses of each party.
6. Surely find out the questions connected with the venue of a banquet. As a rule, the cafe and restaurants order for half a year prior to a celebration. The same concerns services of the host, photographer and operator.
7. After you resolve the issues connected with preparation for a wedding, discuss date of an engagement. Usually the engagement represents an action for the announcement of the groom and the bride among the friends, acquaintances, colleagues. That is official statement for the forthcoming wedding ceremony.