Having become a widow or having endured a divorce, the woman begins to feel defective. Very many women think that look in the opinion of men second-grade goods. The thought of marrying with children, in general comes to mind to units of girls.
Instruction
1. Actually a great number of men if do not dream, then at all not against to marry the woman with "makeweight". And the one who considers other people's children by a burden will look likewise and at own offsprings. Therefore the girl needs to think – whether such husband is necessary to her.
2. First of all, that to the woman with children to find the husband, it is necessary to dismiss all stereotypes. To make it simply if to discredit the myth that all men at the genetic level are not capable to accept foreign child. If the guy is going to marry the girl, so she is very expensive and close to him. Her child automatically too will become the family.
3. Lovely ladies, if you are afraid that the woman cannot marry the child, look at a situation a men's look. First, the man does not need to take out all "delights" of pregnancy – toxicosis, whims of future mother and fear of childbirth. Secondly, it is possible to sleep peacefully at night – the period of a neonatality passed, teeth were cut through, and the matured child in the opinion of the man is a lovely amusing tot, but not shouting tyrant who is taking away forces and attention of the wife. With teenagers in general it is possible to find a common language and to agree.
4. To marry with children it is necessary not only to look for the man who will accept them, but also to work on itself. If your outlook is limited only to care of children, house efforts and work, it will be very difficult to find the spouse. Dare to feel the woman - pay attention to appearance, choose to yourself a hobby and visit public places where it is possible to get acquainted with men.
5. At acquaintance to the alleged groom, it is not necessary to complain how it is difficult for woman to find the husband with children. Thus you give it installation at once. Behave easy as the full-fledged personality. Generally, as if you had no complex of "the divorcee with a makeweight".
6. Thinking that it is very difficult for woman to marry the child, it is possible to do mistakes. You should not rush on each man, seeing in him the potential elect. In the past you already had a bad experience. The second spouse needs to be chosen after careful consideration, he has to become not only the husband, but also the father.
7. At the introduction in repeated marriage, especially if you have children, it is not necessary to hesitate to discuss material issues. The man has to be the getter and the defender in family, but not the second or third the child. Perhaps, some women have no anything against it, but such option suits you.