Among lonely women there is an opinion that there is almost no real man left. It is possible to wait for years for arrival of the soulmate, but better most to undertake creation of the happiness.
Instruction
1. The problem of most of lonely women is that in the course of search of the real man they try to embrace the immensity. They want that he was an undisputed leader in everything and at the same time carried out any desire. From men the good financial position and at the same time - the round-the-clock attention and care is required. The list of qualities of the real man at each woman the, however many positions of the list conflict with each other. Therefore you remember that to meet the person possessing the full list of qualities, necessary for the ideal partner in life, it is almost unreal.
2. It does not mean at all what needs to be forgotten about the dream and to agree to construct the relations with any first comer the person. It is necessary to filter criteria for selection of the real man. Define for yourself what qualities of the person for you are the most significant and have to be present at him and what it is quite possible to refuse. The more characteristics you consider obligatory in the person, the less men approach under this image.
3. Keep in mind that so far you look for the owner of all of qualities, necessary for you, other women not so captious in the choice of the man get family and reduce your opportunities to meet the destiny. Therefore the earlier you will get rid of categoriality, the limiting your choice, the it is more at you than chances not to remain lonely.
4. Remember that not all qualities, priority for you, have to be obviously expressed at the person, some of them can be hidden or be absent at all. The combination in itself qualities of various people practically does not meet at one person. For example, if you decided to cast in the lot with the man who is seriously busy with creation of the career, do not wait from it for frequent calls and constant attention. Also you should not accuse him of egoism, such misunderstanding will lead to break in relations. If you decided what the real man is the one who tries to obtain a high position, reconcile with his way of life.
5. Do not repeat a mistake of many women - do not try "to stick together" from the man of the one who was presented to you in dreams. Adults are not capable to radical changes of character, such attempts only cause irritations in the mature man. The re-education attempt often leads to psychological discomfort of both parties and can lead to break in relations.