Sooner or later children grow up and begin to conduct independent life, however not all parents are ready to reconcile to it. If you want to move from mother with the father, you should not try to spoil the relations with them at the same time.
Instruction
1. Even if to you there are already eighteen, and you feel the need to live independently, for parents it is difficult to stop being the small child whom it is necessary to look after. Only your acts will be able to convince of the return them. You learn to be responsible for yourself, to cook elementary dishes, to keep order. Otherwise as you will survive independently?
2. If you decided to settle out from parents to live with darling, mother and the father have to know yours about his existence at least. Invite your elect or the darling to a dinner, acquaint with the family. Periodically organize joint meetings, trips to the nature. In few months after your girl or the young man found a common language with parents, you can start talking about moving. Most likely, they will not be against.
3. Decided to remove housing together with the friend or the girlfriend it is desirable to acquaint the temporary neighbor with parents also. Yours the father and mother have to be convinced that you will not organize merrily parties every day. It is desirable that your neighbor made an impression of the serious person who is capable and to look after you.
4. Time you decided to move from parents, it means that you are able to take care of yourself financially. You should not try to agree with them that you will live in the certain apartment, and they – to pay for your food and utilities. Tell parents what part of salary you intend to give for the apartment, count how many at you will remain on clothes, food, entertainments. Then parents will understand that you responsibly approached a question of moving and will not die of hunger.
5. Parents are afraid that the grown-up child will forget them. Agree with parents that you will call up every day and to come for family dinners twice a week. If there is an opportunity, try to remove housing near being at home. The father and mother will release you much more quietly if know that it to you to go four stops without changes, and they can pay a visit when they want. Remind parents more often that you love them, then they will transfer your leaving easier.