Blessed it is better to love mother at distance. And than this distance is more, that the love is stronger. Stories how the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law lived together long and happily – one on one million.
1. You do not hurry with hasty decisions on moving. For a start try to improve the relations with the mother-in-law. If she brought up such beautiful man – your husband, then for certain merits in her are. The mother-in-law can perceive the daughter-in-law in bayonets if she feels threat to the long ago adjusted existence. After the wedding it is forced to divide love of the son which belonged only to it, with other woman earlier. Perhaps your mother-in-law just is afraid of loneliness and feelings of uselessness. Try to inform it of a thought that it does not lose the son, and on the contrary – gets also the daughter.
2. If your attempts to improve the relations with a crash failed – look for certain housing. There is a certain category of mothers-in-law to whom will be able to please unless the woman with Jessica Alba's appearance, Sofya Kovalevskaya's brains and Elvira Nabiullina's salary. All others will be obviously unworthy it the precious sonny. The whole day you turn in kitchen? You prepare some nonsense which is harmful to a stomach. Do not you approach a plate at all? The idler which to death wants to starve the husband. From such mothers-in-law it is necessary to move down.
3. The most important is to convince of need of moving of the husband. Either mother or I is not recommended to ask an edge –. Do not arrange hysterics and scandals, do not complain, you do not saw and you do not threaten with a divorce. It is the head of the family, and he has to make the decision on moving independently. Your task is to put this correct decision in his head.
4. Draw for the husband bright prospects of accommodation in the certain apartment. Rewrite confidential recipes of pies and cutlets which are so remarkably prepared by his mother in the tetradaughter, and promise regularly them to prepare. Tempt the husband with promises of enchanting sex in your own cozy bed. Tell what prevents to execute all its sexual fantasies to you only presence of his mummy behind a wall. The main thing that he wanted to move and personally reported about it to the mother.
5. Try to convince the mother-in-law that it will be better for it to live without you. A difficult task, but it is worth trying. If it is lonely, but is rather young – it will be able to arrange the private life. It will have time for the hobbies. Nobody will prevent it to watch favourite soap operas and a talk show. It should not prepare on all. You should not leave the mother-in-law in Contras. After all she is mother of your husband and the grandmother of your children. Promise to visit her every weekend or invite on a visit.
6. Cut down own costs if you live with the mother-in-law for material reasons. Think that it is more important for you – a new dress or personal space. Find more highly paid work, do not refuse side jobs. Study the real estate market, learn conditions of receiving a mortgage in different banks. Look for the rental apartment through acquaintances, the option with fantastically low rent will perhaps turn up. You are not idle. Let the husband will see your activity and will catch it. If you sit in the decree, look for work at home. It will be more difficult financially, but easier emotionally.