Unfortunately, some people because of the character or because of any unpleasant situation which developed at them, do not shun to humiliate or offend the person words or acts. Not to suffer because of behavior of the boor, it is necessary to know how it is correct to respond to insults. It is so possible and force to feel the person awkwardly and to keep own advantage.
How adequately to respond to insult?
For a start let's understand in what situations it is possible to face boorish behavior. Also how to behave in the developed situation depends on it. So, can offend:
- strangers in the crowded place;
- strangers when you are alone;
- the familiar person in the general company;
- the familiar person at private communication.
If it is about a situation where you were offended by the stranger, it is not necessary to pay attention to him. To offend the person that he became silent, can be both it is not reasonable, and it is just dangerous. Nobody knows whom is the stranger, he can be mentally crazy, aggressive. In response to a remark the similar type can pass to physical actions. It is necessary to be especially careful if met the boor of people alone. Just try to leave quickly this "companion", trying not to cause in him aggressions.
In case the familiar person offends, then it is possible and it is necessary to put him into place. Otherwise, he can decide that the similar behavior is absolutely normal.
How to respond to insult it is ridiculous for people around and with sarcasm?
There are several rules which will help to think up the worthy answer. First, try to pretend that you were not affected at all by the statement of the offender. It will a little bring it down a peg.
Secondly, try to wrap up insult against the one who told it. For example, if the guy called the girl persuasive, then in reply she can tell that clever men try to discuss mistakes of women with them alone, and in any way not in the presence of witnesses as little boys who need support of public.
And, at last, you watch the tone. Do not break on shout and try that shrill notes which will give your real emotions were not in good voice.
Using these rules, it is possible to turn insult against the person and to make so that people around laughed at it.
If you do not want to straighten out the familiar person, then just tell him that you did not expect from it similar behavior and that it just offended you. It is also possible to hope that the boor actually did not want to offend anybody and it is accident for which he will apologize.
How strictly to respond to insult?
Whether to use such manner of the answer to rudeness, each person has to solve personally. But, many people try not to think even how offensively to respond to insult. The similar decision can simply push away from you surrounding people as people it will not become better at all than the one who got nasty with it.
But, if, nevertheless, there is a wish to answer strictly, then it is possible just to affect personal features of the person. It will be the answer in style – "but you have curve legs", or "money is not enough". Only consider that the probability that there will be a scandal with all that it implies increases after that.
Still it is possible to try to answer the person that his words do not concern you at all and that you do not intend to communicate with similar people. Only it is necessary to tell it strictly, cold tone and not to break on shout and insults at all. Sometimes such "ice" reaction puts the boor in more awkward situation, than any swear words.
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