How to organize an engagement

How to organize an engagement

Among the wedding ceremonies which since ancient times are carried out in Russia, the engagement (conspiracy) followed a courtship, before a betrothal and a wedding. It is some kind of preliminary contract that young people will enter the marriage relations. In modern life the day of filing of application in the REGISTRY OFFICE often is day of an engagement. Newlyweds sometimes sign the marriage contract which will be appropriate to be signed solemnly this day. In day of an engagement the parents of young people discuss questions of holding future wedding.

It is required to you

  • - Golden pomolvochny Ring with stones;
  • - bouquets of flowers;
  • - banquet hall.


1. Talk to the parents about the forthcoming engagement and intention to celebrate a wedding. If courtship per se was not, surely get acquainted before an engagement with the groom/bride's parents not to give them an unexpected surprise.

2. Organize in day of filing of application in bodies of the REGISTRY OFFICE a meeting of two families wanting to become related for a congratulation of young people on a new rank - the groom and the bride. For carrying out a ceremony of an engagement reserve tables at restaurant, cafe and so forth. The beautiful decor, live music, light registration will create the unforgettable atmosphere of the real holiday. Prepare bouquets of flowers – for the bride and for her mother. Invite the closest family members to this ceremony – parents, sisters and brothers.

3. Announce the engagement. You ask the bride's hand from future father-in-law. Having received parental blessing and having listened to congratulations on an engagement, invite all attendees to a holiday table. And present to the bride the Golden pomolvochny Ring with pebbles, it is good with diamond. It will be descended in your family. The pomolvochny ring accepted by the girl speaks about her consent to marry you. After the wedding she will carry it over a wedding ring.

4. Discuss issues of holding the wedding day at the holiday table. Agree about distribution of duties. Consider questions of a wedding train, the venue of a wedding, of services of the host, placement for night of guests, photo and a videosjmka. The groom with the bride can talk about wedding rings, bouquets, wedding dresses in a private conversation. Having discussed important issues of the forthcoming wedding, parents of young people exchange phones and invite each other on a visit.

5. Prolong this festive evening, having remained together. Congratulate your narrowed on an engagement, having gently whispered it touching assurances of eternal love. Presentation by it of the hidden bouquet of the cornflowers loved by it or a garden lily of the valley will be very lovely. Surprise her with something pleasant. Or with the noisy company of friends go to night club. Send to friends of the invitation in advance that they could congratulate you on an engagement in time. Tell the wedding day to the intrigued friends at the latest moment. At the end of the evening please the darling with a beautiful salute in honor of her. Organize an engagement so that it surely ended with a magnificent wedding. And it will be followed let by series of long, bright, happy years.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team