Crisis in the relations - that critical point to which any couple inevitably comes. It is considered that such crises repeat each 3-5 years. But the most difficult - the first year of the relations. During this period the people learn about each other all most important.
Instruction
1. Be attentive to the soulmate. At the beginning of the relations always it seems that the person whom you meet, the most unique, unusual, reliable, taking of you the hint. But there passes month, two months, half a year... and the veil from eyes falls down. And once it comes - crisis of the relations. Reproaches, cavils, quarrels begin. Always it seems to you that in any dispute you are right, and darling unfairly offended you. Such moments bring many tears, nervoz and chagrin. But the fact that they are, not so badly. During these periods it is possible to understand how treat you. By words and gestures you will be able to understand as far as you are dear to this person. Not because he can tell in a fit of temper something offensive but because emotions will give its state. Though to each other it is necessary to be attentive not only during the quarrels, but also during ""world"". Do not forget to say more often that you love.
2. Do not do the tragedy of each crisis. When there is the first quarrel, apparently, that the relations are finished. You think that the loved one does not love you and you will not meet any more. But do not forget, as he about you at the moment not the best opinion. Therefore at a meeting try to smooth ""acute angles"". It does not concern couples which initially understand that they do not suit one another. In this case it is better not to suffer.
3. Talk to darling heart-to-heart. It is necessary to talk after each quarrel and just at an opportunity. Communication opens the person for us from new, a time unexpected, the parties. Tell each other about the childhood, fears, express the opinion on any given occasion. The main thing, you are not silent. Other person will never be able to learn that he is created in your head: your thoughts, feelings, experiences. Especially it concerns women who can often think up a problem. If something does not suit you, revolts if there are any doubts and questions, at once speak about it. It is very important for families where people can be silent for years about the problems, but sooner or later there is ""explosion"", and sometimes and a divorce. The most important that desire to keep the relations and to overcome crisis was mutual. Efforts of one person usually come to an end with defeat.
4. You are respectful to each other. You have to understand that your darling has the opinion and the views of various situations. In the solution of any problems always try to reach a compromise. The attention, love, understanding of darling (so that to feel change of his mood) surely will help you to overcome any crises and to be together many years.