Many families during any given period of the life face various problems. Crisis in family can arise because of misunderstanding, financial difficulties, various conflict situations. The main thing is to find a way to improve the relations and to keep family if spouses love each other.
Difficulties in the family relations can cause problems with mutual understanding. If spouses have too different values and the purposes in life, it can separate couple. In this case it is necessary to learn to listen to each other, to consider the interests of the partner and to reach compromise.
One of the most widespread family problems is the household routine. That homework did not take away all your free time, distribute duties between all family members. And modern household appliances "will undertake" hard physical activity and "will present you" time for personal contact.
The boredom and days similar at each other direct melancholy and despondency and push people to search of new feelings far from family. That to avoid it bring bright paints in the habitual daily occurrence. Plan the leisure: you go to the cinema, theaters, on concerts, on exhibitions, leave on the nature. If you have children, find for them time (visits of circus, aquapark, children's cafe). The main thing is not to spend all evenings in front of the TV or the monitor of the computer. Think up the family traditions and adhere to them.
Problems in sexual life quite often are the reason of family discord. Do not allow passion and romanticism to leave your relations. Do each other surprises, you tell pleasant words, give romantic parties. Do not hesitate to admit to the partner the sexual fantasies, trust – a basis of harmonious couple.
Different views of spouses on education of children can also lead to family quarrels. Here it is important to come to the general tactics of behavior. Together make the priority list in education of the child. For example, good education, sports activities, learning of foreign languages, expansion of an outlook. It is also useful to define the forbidden acts concerning children (shout, physical punishments, insults). Try to hold to the plan and support each other. Avoid the relations "bad-good" when one of parents is strict, and the second in every possible way indulges the child and protects him.
Difficulties in the family relations can raise also a financial question. There are different options: economic dependence of one spouse on another, discomfort that the income of the wife is significantly higher, temporary financial difficulties. The monetary question is a serious subject therefore it is better to decide in advance how family finance will be earned and be spent.
In case of loss of income, spouses need to support each other and to refrain from reproaches. Perhaps, it is worth reconsidering methods of earnings and to try to find different ways of receiving profit (family business, change of the place of work).
Unfaithfulness, alcoholism and drug addiction lead to crisis and disorder of family. But it is not just complexity any more, and the real trouble of married couple. In this case the help of experts (psychologist, the narcologist) and serious work on the relations is necessary.
To avoid many family difficulties, it is necessary to follow some rules of communication. Do not offend each other, do not criticize action and the word of the spouse in the presence of strangers, put yourself to the place of the spouse. You do not save offense, otherwise they can grow up from small misunderstanding in a big problem, often far-fetched. Remember that constructive dialogue is better than an emotional quarrel.