Practically each married couple only just beginning joint life is sure: they will have everything as it should be. By the general amicable efforts they will overcome any problem! Alas, it is more often in the theory. In practice, even the most loving couple crises can trap.
Instruction
1. The first year of joint life. Newlyweds suddenly find out that the partner who became the legal husband is not ideal at all! He has shortcomings, sometimes, essential. It appears, one love is not enough, still concessions and patience are necessary. And they to it were not taught! It is no wonder that in the first year nearly 20% of marriages break up! How to avoid it? Marriage is art of a compromise. It is not necessary to consider the opinion, the way of life only correct, especially – to try to impose to other party. Remember that self-confidence should not develop into self-confidence.
2. Boundary of third or fourth. Many families take the stage connected with appearance of the child hard. On the one hand, it is huge joy; with another – huge responsibility, fatigue. Some women are so absorbed by maternal efforts that the husband is strongly pushed into the background. And any man hard transfers such cooling. Happens that the woman who is rolled up and tired still ceases to watch herself. As a result, the disappointed husband seeks a consolation elsewhere. How to overcome this stage of crisis? Here a lot of things depend on the husband. He not only can, but also has to divide with the wife efforts on child care. After all, it is its own flesh and blood!
3. Seven years of joint life. The husband and the wife are still young, full of strength, but grinding in very long time ago came to the end, all the friend about the friend know. Can quite pull both the man, and the woman on the party. Just to get new, bright feelings which are not in matrimony. How to cope with it? Remember that at you the child before whom you are responsible grows up! Try not to turn into homebodies. You visit more often, on exhibitions, theater. It is as little as possible routine and boredom!
4. Fourteen years of marriage. Many husbands become as if anxious: uncontrollably pulls them to young seductresses. What to do to wives? Try to do without scandals and tears. Make efforts to look on all hundred. Remember that any woman is obliged to watch herself! The child's birth can sometimes help: the sense of responsibility and pride of the paternity will hold the man in family.
5. Silver wedding, that is twenty five years of marriage. Many men and women are hard affected by "a syndrome of the become empty nest": children grew up, they have the destiny now. Marriage at this stage sometimes becomes mere formality. And it is vain! Think that only on children "there are other fish in the sea" that now you can live happily: to do favorite thing, to do a bit of traveling all over the world.