In life of many women the non-reciprocal love meets, and everyone who tested it, knows how the person having unilateral feelings to whom a sympathy object is cold in depression feels. If there is no hope for reciprocity from other person, and your feelings can upset only even more you, it is necessary to make efforts to overcome them and to begin new life. How to make it?
Instruction
1. First of all, stop to feel sorry for yourself and find confidence in own forces and intentions. Convince yourself that you should not regret what cannot be reached, and try to perceive the feelings as something last what once you forget about, about yesterday.
2. Think of what you love and you appreciate yourself, so, you will not dare to suffer and worry because of the person to whom you mean nothing. If an object of your sympathy clearly expressed the unwillingness to build with you the relation, showed indifference and lack of interest – this person is not necessary to you, and it is not your destiny. Keep advantage – forget it, do not complain and do not discuss the failure with other people.
3. All know that it is not so simple to forget the person who sank into the soul – but for this purpose there is a lot of the distracting maneuvers which will occupy you so that time for melancholy for nonexistent feelings will not be simple to be enough for you.
4. Support in yourself a cheerful spirit, communicate with friends, do favorite things – grow up flowers, walk, play sports and dances, draw, read books, gather for parties, you watch movies and listen to music. All this perfectly will help to distract with the left feelings.
5. Take care of the own life – buy a beautiful thing, use favourite cosmetics, register in beauty shop, prepare the favourite dish. Understand that life goes on, and it is filled a lot of interesting events and pleasant things.
6. Think whether you have some dream or some purpose which you wanted to reach long ago, but there was not enough time and determination in any way? If such purpose is – the moment to begin to realize it. Safely go to a language course, to dancing studio, to a travel, to the pool – you study what always dreamed of. You will understand that your undivided feelings grow dim in comparison with new bright impressions.
7. Fall in love with yourself – only then your following love will be mutual. If you carry by for yourself a loop of offenses and diffidence, a story with undivided feelings can repeat as men love cheerful and self-assured women.
8. Keep feeling of internal harmony, rejoice to each new day, derive pleasure, looking at themselves in a mirror. Fill the life with the various events developing both your body, and your soul – and you will feel how life gets better, and the mass of new prospects is ahead offered.