They say that the strongest marriages in what spouses are true friends who openly and validly communicate with each other. Therefore friendship – the good basis for the relations, but it is necessary to be able to throw the bridge from one to another.
Instruction
1. Before working, you need to deal accurately with the feelings and to understand whether these relations are necessary to you. Perhaps, you now just lack heat and understanding, and you think that you fell in love with the friend. Accept as the fact that very often the relations spoil very firm and long friendship, and do not think what so cannot be in your case.
2. Unostentatiously hint. You can try to touch accidentally upon a subject of friendship and the relations when you have a rest together in the company of friends or to tell a story (better real) that someone was on friendly terms earlier, and now are couple. Attentively you look at reaction, state the position and try get to talking the interlocutor to understand that he thinks. As it is your friend, most likely, he will tell what thinks. Still as option it is possible to suggest to watch the movie with similar subject tenches and to discuss it.
3. Change the attitude. Show on affairs that your meetings are not the ordinary. Prepare for arrival of the friend, begin to put on more festively, you give gifts (not only beautiful, but also useful), do small surprises and, of course, do not forget to assure it that his opinion and preferences is more important than others for you casually in words. Allocate it from people around.
4. Use nonverbal signs. If your friend is not silly, then he will notice that your gestures and gestures without words show romantic interest. Try to flirt, coquet and make advances softly – perhaps, is what he from you waited for, and it will show its true attitude towards you.
5. Tell directly. This step very risky because the outcome can or destroy your friendship or transfer it to the level of the relations. You are ready to go on the victims? Even if you will answer in the affirmative, resort to this option only when others were not effective. Though it gives a reason to think: perhaps your friend purposefully avoids the beginning of the relations because does not test to you anything except friendly feelings. Anyway, weigh everything and choose a right moment for a conversation. Do not allow emotions to direct you.