Alcoholism of the husband, father, as a rule, does unfortunate you and your children, and gradually at all destroys family. Therefore it is impossible to be reconciled with it. Fight and do everything possible to save the relations, to keep the father to the children.
Instruction
1. If the person is dear to you if still feelings remained, despite constant drunk uproars, do not turn away from him, help it to cope with this trouble.
2. Remember that scandals, reproaches and hysterics will not yield desirable results. Think better over when and why your loved one began to take alcoholic beverages in unlimited number. Possibly, it was the difficult period in his life, and it could not overcome a circumstance. During such period you had to be near the husband that he did not feel unnecessary and unloved. Consumption of alcoholic drinks is most often a way to leave from problems.
3. Therefore it will be wrong to shift all fault to it. But also do not indulge its weaknesses, especially, do not take alcoholic drinks together with it. Sit down together better and talk frankly that it has a dependence on alcohol with which it is necessary to struggle together.
4. Create houses, whenever possible, comfortable and quiet atmosphere. Do not incite children against the father.
5. The most difficult is to achieve that the person, dependent on alcohol, admitted before by itself and before you the dependence and that agreed to treatment.
6. Find out where the best experts owning effective techniques in fight against this illness work. You descend with the spouse on reception to the narcologist and get a referral in clinic. Perhaps, preliminary work with the psychologist will be required to convince the husband of need of treatment.
7. Do everything possible to stop drinking communication of the spouse with fellow drinking companions that there was no temptation again.
8. Do not leave the husband in private with this dependence, help it to overcome a disease, and then the world, rest, love will return to your family again.