Girls are mysterious creations which have one whim today, tomorrow - another, and the day after tomorrow the practical hostess with strong character and a lunch on six persons appears at you. However, girls, first of all, creations gentle, and them it is necessary to prepare for especially important events beforehand.
Instruction
1. First of all, be defined for what event you are going to prepare the girlfriend. As far as this event is important for her? What it will make an impression on her? Whether something depends on her here, or some external forces from which the girl should be protected whenever possible come into effect? Perhaps she also will perfectly cope, and you will impose her some line of conduct? Therefore weigh everything "pro" and "contra".
2. Try to explain to the girl importance of the forthcoming event at first. The reason works for some people better, at someone the large role is played after all by feelings. But it is always necessary to begin with positions ratsio, cases when the reason managed to subordinate to itself feelings are frequent and to normalize them. Therefore classify everything, at first having convinced that the fact that it is necessary to you, is really necessary for both of you. At first you have to believe, and then already go and convince the girl.
3. The following step - feelings. This stage is necessary in case all arguments of reason failed. Of course, at men to press on feelings it turns out far worse, than at women. But what to do, in life it is necessary to study also such things including. Often the girl of it only also waits: that you showed what pain to you is brought by a present posture of affairs and what you have plans that to find this way out.
4. It is possible to prepare the girl not only for that event which is initiated by you (for example, moving to other city or other country or, God forbid, parting in the girl which initiator besides are you). Perhaps, your parents against your relations, and you (that is very improbable) get up on their party. Then it is necessary to be firm to the last and first of all assured most that the decision made by you is right. Only then you will manage to prepare the girl for the forthcoming blow.