How to present itself

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To be able it is correct to present himself extremely important. This ability is useful to you as in case of employment or establishing business contacts, and at acquaintance to an opposite sex. People around perceive information on the person for 50% through visual perception, for 40% - estimating the speech of the interlocutor, and only 10% are the share of what he reports. As you can see, success for 90% depends on art of the self-presentation.

Instruction

1. For a start, pay the attention to a greeting ritual which for the majority of business meetings begins with handshake. Your hand on the one hand did not resemble dead fish, but together handshake should not be too strong, it can be apprehended as attempt to suppress the interlocutor. Handshake has to be sure, a palm it is necessary to have not from above or from below hands of the interlocutor, and vertically, is a handshake equal.

2. The greeting has to be followed by a direct honest smile and an open look. Too the stare confuses, the shy look or a manner not to look in the face makes a bad feeling. Try to work a manner to look in the face in front of the mirror.

3. It is known that beautiful people cause sympathy in the majority therefore, preparing for the self-presentation, carefully think over the appearance. Even if you do not consider yourself inveterate handsome, enters the concept "beauty" both physical data, and well-groomed appearance. Therefore try to be at a meeting accurate, well-groomed, dressed "very clean".

4. Great sympathy causes a feeling of the energy proceeding from the person. Therefore you come to a meeting well-rested and in excellent mood. If the mood since morning was not set, lift it artificially, - smile to yourself in a mirror, and tell that at you today surely everything will turn out.

5. Do not forget about a sign language. At a meeting bend to interlocutors, show open palms, but be not clamped and do not grow stout on a chair.

6. Give compliments to the interlocutors. Let they will be not far-fetched, but sincere and original. If take a closer look at the interlocutors, then find in them something that causes your sympathy, and successfully use the lines which were pleasant to you in conversation. Be trained to give people compliments, this art is capable to open any doors.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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