Statistically, every third couple gets divorced today. Very dangerous and unpleasant trend. Perhaps, matter in too active feminization, perhaps, in too quickly developing progress. And it is possible, the reason of such number of divorces is in the general fatigue from mad rates of modern life. Preservation of family is possible only thanks to efforts of two people, their desire to restore feelings and the healthy atmosphere in family.
Instruction
1. Set the purposes correctly. Of course, at current situation there is a certain diffidence, but if there are doubts how it is possible to convince of something others? The optimal variant is to make the list of own questions, for example "Why to me to aspire to it?". Then on all the "why" you should give the answers, and it will be only this way possible to comprehend the true aspiration – it is necessary to return back the relations or not.
2. Be yourself. Openly express the feelings and be not afraid of condemnation of people around. What sense to be the tool of someone's beliefs, someone's will? First, all the same everything cannot please. Secondly, simply in a disgusting way constantly to adapt to others and to play others role. Sincerity – here what really will help to understand own feelings and to improve the relations with the world around.
3. Trust yourself. One more sign of self-confidence is a full self-confidence and the forces. You remember, everything that becomes – to the best. Preservation of family does not designate full submission one and absolute supremacy of other partner at all. Marriage is an equal union, and only equality of partners, their most and the mutual respect, mutual understanding can warn a gap.
4. Remember that in what way there would be no relations with the partner farther, you have not only duties, but also is right. If you do not awake them to defend, nobody else for you will not make it.
5. And the last, is kind of banal this hackneyed phrase did not sound, but try to find with each other a common language. If both of you are sincerely interested in marriage preservation, then and you and your partner will try to understand each other and to reach compromise.