Many couples leave in half a year-year. On the question "why?" left shrug shoulders: "It seems everything arranged, but something did not develop." Then admit that are sorry about parting. How to behave what to do that the relations lasted long?
Instruction
1. Do not become isolated the friend on the friend. It is good when you have mutual friends, colleagues, acquaintances. But through some time you will always be tired to be together. Give each other freedom. Nobody will want to come back to a close cage, but everyone will return with pleasure to the friendly house. Besides, presence of own friends allows you not to be dissolved in each other completely, and to remain independent persons.
2. Look for a new common ground. When you only began your relations, the love passion was the leading force. You bathed in love, did not get out of a bed and went crazy from kisses. But here time passed, passions pouleglis, and it turned out that at you few common interests. If you are sure that near you that person that to you it is necessary, find a new common ground. Ask questions, try to know each other better, and you will be able to find out that both it is crazy about the American advertizing of the 30th years. If after all attempts you do not find the general common ground, you can create them. Let you will have the general hobby, play together sports, go to foreign language courses, and you will be able to tell each other the words of love on different adverbs.
3. Do not forget to pay each other compliments. Your partner has to understand that you were attracted in him by not only beauty, but also a set of other qualities. You praise each other. It never happens much. If your girlfriend remarkably prepares, be not tired to admire her culinary talents. If your partner perfectly plays the guitar, remind that you it is crazy about his talent. Let you be connected not only by a sexual attraction.
4. Make a declaration of love. The words of love - in general the necessary thing. The love can be compared to a flower: if not to look after it, then she will die. In the first days of your meetings you spoke about love constantly, do not forget to do it and in a year of joint life. Nothing so lightens the mood as the words "I Love You", "I Do Not Imagine Life without You", "Without You I Feel Lonely". Agree, it will be pleasant to you to hear it from darling. And be not greedy in manifestation of feelings.
5. Make general plans. Let at you will be not only today. Create the future. For example, plan a joint travel. Let yet you even have no international passport. It is possible to examine together cards, to make routes, to learn widespread phrases in a foreign language and to choose cafe in which you will have breakfast.
6. Do not try to change each other. The person is completely formed as the personality by 15 years. Strong shocks can correct character, but generally it remains invariable. And why to try to change character of darling? You fell in love with it it what it is. Better to a thicket focus attention on positive traits of character, and try not to notice habits, unpleasant for you.