The girl needs to remind constantly that you love her, by means of words, acts, bringing romanticism and a variety the relations. But the thought of it often nonpluses guys, they are more straightforward and avaricious in manifestation of feelings though it is not the evidence of their absence. In more detail about ways to prove the love at distance and having been near read below.
In the relations at distance there is a set of reefs which can provoke a gap. It should be taken into account the fact that women think and perceive the world around, including guys, otherwise.
- the increased emotionality is, perhaps, the most important factor defining quality of the relations between partners;
- low self-assessment;
- the jealousy provoked by society pressure;
- mistrust in view of the previous bad experience of the similar relations;
- insufficient attention from the partner.
Important! In attempts to prove the love to guys it is necessary to put more often itself to the place of the girl. It will help to see a picture more clearly and to realize, to work how exactly in any given situation.
- Saying that the woman is auditory not an empty phrase — she needs compliments and care, at least in words. The love message in the middle of the working day received from the guy quickly will lighten the mood. I like to write ", you are necessary to me" takes 5 seconds, and the woman will remember it all day.
- Be interested in the state of health and how there passed it day, you want the same subsequently, living with it in one territory. It will show the level of your care and the partner's value in your eyes.
- You share with it the thoughts and some details of the working moments — it will show level of credibility. If not to devote the woman in the affairs and only to keep silent, she will finish thinking to herself about presence of other woman or lack of love sooner or later.
- If there is no opportunity to call — warn in advance, and do not forget about SMS, on them precisely there will be a minute for the whole day.
- Discuss the joint future — plan days off, a holiday, accommodation. It will show gravity of the attitude towards the girl and will help to improve her emotional state.
- Give it freedom — you should not too press and ban to come for walks with friends, you need also it. It is important to remember that the woman — not property, communication and a possibility of self-realization are necessary for it.
- Support the woman in her aspirations to improve skills or to look for the best place of work — do not pull it on a bottom as a stone. If the girl wants to realize herself in a new field of activity, support her. It will help to show as far as it is expensive to you. Give it the chance to feel significant in this world that it is important for the harmonious relations.
Words words, but they need a reinforcement actions and acts.
It is necessary to give compliments correctly. The man is the chief critic of female beauty, her dresses, a make-up, hairstyle and other trifles. The simple words "to you there is your business suit" will be pledged to the woman an energy charge for the whole day. The positive spirit since the morning will not allow to spoil to the girl mood for all day of work.
Whether you know? The person chooses to himself the partner not similar to the parents, and the one who will be able to give the chance to experience the most significant feelings from the childhood.
Selecting compliments, do not compare the half to other women. It is right way to sow grain of doubts in her soul that the guy too often is lost in contemplation of others. Do not go to far in love phrases and compliments — they should not be too much. If the man pours compliments, but is not able to listen and sympathize, it will lead to a gap.
This version of the proof of the feelings is rational only when the hobby is a circulation on clubs and other haunts of vice. In all other cases it is necessary to try to attract the girl with the interests. For example, same fishing. By whom it is decided that this type of activity is not interesting to girls, maybe, once having tried, it will be able to give odds to the guy and all his friends.
Important! With refusal of a hobby it is necessary to look strictly on an individual situation, considering tastes and preferences of the girl, but not forgetting about the. The man who is completely dissolved for the benefit of the girlfriend becomes uninteresting, even faceless.
At first it is necessary to try option "you to me — I to you". For example, it likes skating, to you — archery. Both of these occupations can be alternated: once a week to roller-skate, time to go to club of shooters. The main thing to show that this type of activity is not a competitor for your love and is not necessary on the first place at all.
However, there are cases when it is necessary to sacrifice the hobby. If the girl got sick, and the guy bringing drugs and to flirt, went to a training, naturally, alienation will appear.
For the woman important that to her opinion listened. In a talk do not in words "I will emphasize", and "we will make". In some situations the woman can become the excellent assistant who will prompt how to bypass a problem on the other hand. It is not obligatory to force a half to resolve global issues, it is enough to give it the chance to pick up to you a suit for a business meeting or to ask to help will relax before adoption of the important decision. She will be glad to it, and the man will have an opportunity will approach it and to open on the other hand which he did not see yet.
Men are not inclined to attach significance to trifles. Sometimes it and not so important, however, the main dates needs to be remembered. You cannot remember — write down or install a reminder in phone.
Among such dates her birthday is obligatory. It is also important not to go to far in dates: celebration of the first kiss, day of a meeting not so significantly.
Whether you know? Contrary to the occurring opinion that to the man only sex is important, in the relations between partners of intimate proximity women pay bigger attention.
Not only accommodation together, but also just pastime can be on the weekend joint plans for the future. In these plans it should be taken into account mutual opinion of partners.
- To disperse on rooms and to write everyone the list of actions for the weekend.
- To exchange lists and to introduce the amendments.
- Together to discuss everything "pros and cons".
- To create the general list of affairs.
Such method can be used concerning the solution of any questions, it gives the chance to know each other better and also serves as the excellent tool warning quarrels on trifles.
This step is important in any relations therefore demands special preparation. It concerns acquaintance not only to parents of the guy, but also the girl. Partners need to plan day of a meeting in advance. To report about it to parents and to prepare them.
- to house situation — at parents of the house or to invite them to itself if couple lives separately;
- cafe — most we accept this option, allows to combine a meeting of parents of the girl and guy;
- in relaxed atmosphere outdoors.
Important! The main thing at meetings with parents not to go too far in alcohol since all participants are in the reexcited emotional state, and it is unknown how the organism will react to alcohol in such situation.
The next stage — training of both partners for a meeting with parents. It is necessary to discuss all reefs and to be prepared carefully for a conversation. As a last resort, it is possible to make sketches by that and to consider possible options of succession of events.
Not to put the girl in an awkward situation, in a talk with parents it is worth accepting its party and not to allow impartial comparisons from them. In turn it is necessary to demand the same from it. Partners have to realize accurately that this step is decisive in further life, two of them will create a new cell of society, and parents passed already similar stage, having faced the reefs, and in life of young family have to take part only in quality of an auxiliary element, but not the destroyer.
If the relations already reached a certain level, and the guy is sure that he found that, and the girl is ready to become a wife, it is possible to pass to the following step of the relations. It is necessary to make offer consciously. It has to be a sincere rush.
Important! The proposal should not be just a phrase counting upon the fact that it is possible to take away it back and to change the decision.
The man has to feel that he wants to carry out all life with the half, is ready to perceive it such as it is, with all advantages and shortcomings. Otherwise — you should not take for a ride to yourself and it.
- Make the action plan together.
- Try to resolve in advance housing issue — cohabitation with parents of any of partners already at the initial stage will threaten family life.
- Submit the application to the REGISTRY OFFICE.
- Proceeding from results of acquaintance to parents, pick up most an opportunity and a way to report to them about the decision to legalize the relations.
Further act on a situation. There is a set of ways to prove to the woman the attachment. The most important is to remember that she is more emotional by the nature therefore she needs open manifestation of feelings. Having found the correct approach to the half, you will manage to start a strong family.