Did you learn what the husband changes you, and now want to punish him? Well, you are absolutely right. It is impossible to disregard such fact. Impunity can result in permissiveness, and the husband to change you further.
Instruction
1. First of all, you remember that punishment not delivery in shop. It is not necessary to hurt in response to pain which was caused to you. Punishment is a way to force the man to think of you and to regret the behavior. Therefore try to punish him love. It is a difficult method, but very effective. Your care, love and attention will force the man to doubt correctness of the acts. Why to seek happiness elsewhere if the house is waited by the tender and native wife? Only you remember, this method will work if your attitude towards the husband is disinterested. You should not wait from it for gratitude and the fact that the traitor immediately to you will begin to kiss your legs. Give the love just like that.
2. The second method is more doubtful, but is also effective, as well as the first. Punish it jealousy. Using this method, you remember that the imagination of the husband and at all not the facts has to be a basis of jealousy only. If the fact of your treason takes place, probability to lose the husband will be very big. Men, as a rule, it do not forgive. Let's note that the jealousy will help not only to punish the traitor, but also will warm up your feelings.
3. There is one more way: to forgive the husband. Not to ignore a treason case, namely to forgive. Collect the strength and discuss his treason with the husband. Let he will understand what pain he caused you. Will understand how strongly you love him that you can forgive also it. Actually, of course, any of women will not be able to forgive up to the end the fact of treason of the husband. But if you after all decided to forgive the husband, then do not remember at each opportunity its treason. Also you remember, everyone has to have the second chance. Give this chance your guilty, but to the beloved husband.