Our dear husbands. Once they swore an oath to fidelity, promised to carry us on hands and never to offend. But there passes time, hours of matrimonial life tick, everything changes. And here partners in marriage are already more similar to two professional boxers wishing to get the best of the opponent, by all means. Again you have a family conflict. The husband stands up for the rights again and refuses to help you on that simple basis that he is a man.
It is required to you
- Nerves of steel, patience, respect for and the husband, lack of acute angles and objects in the apartment.
Instruction
1. Calm down after another skirmish. Now it is clear to you that abuse and abuse not to break a situation. Men perceive a female voice just as a sound background and do not press at all in the fact that we speak to them or shout.
2. Remember the bored phrase that men are big children. Therefore methods of process of education has to be based on the same principle. In any educational process the main thing – the sequence and own example. And still it is necessary to apply in turn a carrot and stick. You remember, your actions, but not words are important.
3. Accurately designate problems which disturb you. It is not necessary to answer a question – "what does not suit you" - a word "ALL!!!!!!". You love it. Write yourself on paper an exact claim – "strongly is jealous without cause", "does not help about the house", "limits in money though it has them", "humiliates at friends", "scatters socks on the apartment" and other options of an outrage which are done by your blessed.
4. 1) Begin to act quietly and consistently: a) Does not put away socks: ask to remove, then warn that you will throw out them, then wait several days (let scatters) and throw out, it is better demonstrative also in a window. b) Does not help about the house (shop, garbage, the vacuum cleaner): ask to help, warn, then stop to do its work. This most difficult. You so cannot live, in dirt! But it is necessary to keep. The main thing that he understood all gravity of your intentions. Wait when he makes everything. It is impossible to enter with him the conflict at all. Smile. All the rest – as always (a talk, sex, campaigns on a visit).v) does not give money: earn, let will begin to worry. Such chariness – a control method over you. d) Goes out with the friends when you all in efforts: organize a noisy hen party. A way it carries then the "tired" girlfriends on houses and washes the dishes. And the head hurts you, well so day three.