Unfortunately, sometimes the love passes. And the person, dearest for you, suddenly says: "Just let's be with you friends". No wonder that about anything not suspecting lover can become puzzled in such situation.
Instruction
1. The reasons on which your passion said a sacramental phrase can be much. Perhaps, in your relations you behaved more as the friend that, of course, is quite good, but only if at the same time you also are a gentle beloved. Perhaps, do not want to communicate with you at all, but tell this phrase not to offend refusal. It is also probable that your love is extremely pleasant to your half, but here she does not intend to burden herself with strong bonds with you.
2. The answer to it of the offer depends on your desire. Would you like to be on friendly terms with the former beloved? Whether you will be able to be near him, without hoping to return him and without feeling more attractions? Whether you will suffer when he tells you about the new relations? Only after you will honestly answer these questions, you will be able to make the decision.
3. Think and whether really this person is interesting to you. If together you were held only by passion, friendship at you will hardly turn out. And here if you are interesting for each other as interlocutors and together endured a lot of things, it is worth trying.
4. Do not consider that it is only temporary estrangement in your relations. If you agree to remain near the former passion only to return it, better at once refuse this action. From your invention hardly that will turn out, and you will only torment yourself with vain hopes.
5. Ask time to think. It is not obligatory for you to answer this offer immediately at all. For a start heal sincere wounds, depart from the endured shock. Perhaps, you are not ready to become friends right now, but with pleasure will make it in several months when be exempted from experiences. It is necessary to tell about it to the former soulmate honestly.
6. Unfortunately, the offer to remain friends sometimes means only polite refusal. Perhaps, to these your ex-half just tries to soften blow.