Compliments thought up to flatter human vanity. They satisfy needs of nature in recognition. However not all people know how it is correct to react to similar manifestations of sympathy not to create problems in communication.
1. As experts note, to most of those people who do not love compliments and are not able to accept adequately them, does not get confidence in own forces. The habit to accept courtesies is formed since the childhood therefore if parents criticized the child rather, than admired it and his merits, at adult age it will have a resistant and unshakable confidence that it has no virtues of which it is worth being proud.
2. That to whom similar experiences more than are familiar psychoanalysts recommend to reconsider the relation to compliments. If they disturb and discompose, you should not attach them too great value. You treat them more simply, without trying to analyze whether you deserved them or not. Perceiving them as kind, polite and positive words in own address, you as if break the internal fetters connecting you. On any compliment it is enough to tell usual human "thanks", without driving themselves into a subconsciousness jungle. Full-time employment over own self-assessment, its increase, will help the person to treat calmly compliments of people around.
3. The compliment told by the man has special influence on the woman. It as if inspires and fascinates. But as in many respects the compliment is one of elements of successful communication, it is necessary to treat it correctly. If the man expressed admiration of your appearance, culinary abilities or trait of character, you should not coquet and to deliberately belittle the advantages. Even if it is usual flattery, accept it with a quiet smile and gratitude. It is not obligatory to answer with a compliment a compliment at all. What sense is in in turn to extol each other? It is much more appropriate to wait for a right moment when the compliment is appropriate and will become apprehended as your personal point of view, but not the polite answer to someone's praise.
4. If you receive a compliment and a courtesy from the person who is pleasant to you, and you understand that he expresses you sympathy too, you can use all the abilities of seduction and even to poflirtovat in response to a praise. Some girls at similar communication begin to be confused, redden, it is even pleasant to men therefore if any words cause in you awkwardness, do not worry about the reaction, the main thing that needs to be remembered: you have to behave naturally.