How to recognize the gay

How to recognize the gay

If you want to learn whether the man is a gay, you need to watch it some time, observing at the same time a certain care. However it is impossible to be sure for certain of the guesses until the person does not admit to you it.

1. If you have a suspicion that the man whom you know – the gay do not try to learn it from his acquaintances. The worst that you can make is to ask questions of sexual orientation of the person to his friends. Even if it so, perhaps, his acquaintances is not aware of it. Anyway similar inquiries will do harm to this person whether is about the gay or not. Such actions you or spread unreasonable rumors about the person or openly interfere with his private life which he, perhaps, wants to hide. Besides, if the man learns about your actions, he never to you admits this question.

2. You do not judge the person on style of his clothes. There is a popular belief that if the man wears the fitting clothes of a bright coloring, he is, most likely, a gay. It's not trueIt's not true, any man can put on in this way, it has nothing in common with his orientation. Besides, many athletes and metrosexuals wear such clothes, it is only style to which many adhere.

3. Pay attention to how the person reacts to a talk about gays. The concrete reaction giving the gay in this case does not exist, however some signs nevertheless can indicate it. If the man furiously protects the rights of gays, acts in their support, probability that he is a gay, is high. However many people to whom is what to hide about themselves will probably not begin to take such care of gays. Try to talk on this subject to somebody at its presence and look behind reaction of the person whom you suspect. If he the gay, most likely, it attentively listens to opinion of your interlocutor.

4. Reaction to an opposite sex can also give some assumptions of orientation of the person. But also here confidence cannot be. If the man has no girlfriend or even the acquaintance, it is possible to assume that he is a gay though, it is possible, also, that he is just very timid person. It is important to consider its age also. If the guy studies at school and he never had a girl, the probability that it the gay is much lower, than if in such situation there is a forty-year-old man.

5. At last, you can directly ask the person about his orientation. However for this purpose you have to have good reasons. For example, you are very close to the person and want to know about him everything or this is your friend and you as the woman you want the relations with it. If moves you only curiosity, forget about this way. Besides, than you were guided in attempt to learn from the person about his orientation, be ready to negative reaction from his party. It will mean only that he is not ready to open communication on this subject, you here at all not and.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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