Sometimes even in the most successful family there are quarrels. Still yesterday spouses could not live also day the friend without friend, and today hardly talk. People around suffer from their quarrels too. How to return the world and rest to family?
Instruction
1. Before starting truce process, well think. The cause of a quarrel can be rather serious when intervention of strangers even if delicate, threatens with a moral trauma to all participants of process. It makes sense to become the peacekeeper if couple rather well is familiar to you.
2. To reconcile spouses, you should resort to innocent cunnings, and here the direct tactics expressed in arrangements and admonitions under the slogan "Be Reconciled and Do Not Fight Any More" most often results in the return results. Be delicate, especially, if the cause of a quarrel of "two halves" is connected with treason.
3. Get support of mutual friends who also do not like cooling in there is no time the most clockwork couple from all company. In the most strict secret create initiative peacekeeping group, you share the ideas. Practice shows that collective intelligence is capable to offer the most uncommon ways of a solution.
4. Use a method from the Hollywood movies. Organize a party for spouses, without warning about it in advance. Invite them separately, having reported that something grandiose is started. The program of evening has to be thought over, put the main emphasis on games, dances, competitions in which I participate all. The cheerful relaxed atmosphere can bring together once ardent couple again.
5. Show to spouses of cinema about their life. Collect photos and video where couple is imprinted at the happiest moments. Create an original collage, mount the small movie, having sounded it cheerful music or by offscreen voices of mutual friends who praise highly a couple in every possible way.
6. Have with someone from couple a heart-to-heart talk. Avoiding direct questions, offer the support. Perhaps, the wife needs council long ago, but it is simple to share the experiences by her there is nobody. Support her, tell that quarrels happen at all, and strong family – a rarity whether it is worth allowing adversities to sadden the happy union? Report that you love both of them and just you do not represent them separately. Be sure, to you will listen.