Quarrels with the close girlfriend – not too pleasant thing. However without delay, without examinations who exactly of you two is guilty of the incident, it is simpler to be reconciled.
The good way to improve the relations is not to return to a quarrel
Do not demand explanations and do not speak. As soon as you with the girlfriend begin to clear up details, the quarrel will begin anew. And it will be much more difficult to reconcile.
Tell the girlfriend that she is dear to you that it is necessary in your life that you do not want to lose its society. Remind her that quarrels happen at the closest people, but any difficult situation can be resolved. Discuss with it possible options of permission of current situation.
If the girlfriend apologizes, do not begin to explain to her what she was guilty of. Forgive her and communicate, indifferently. Or you can explain to her what touched you, but do not operate with phrases "You were not right because", by means of similar designs it is possible to begin easily a quarrel anew.
You are reconciled alone. The crowded place badly is suitable for peace restoration.
Do favorite thing. If you cleared all important points, be engaged with the girlfriend in something that is interesting to both of you. You can bake something, sew, draw, play some game. Joint activity will help you to forget about a quarrel. The main thing not to try to distract in this way if you did not reconcile yet or did not understand the conflict nature. In a similar case the joint activity will only heat the atmosphere. Never remember the conflicts from the past. Remembering the previous quarrels, you will return to the corresponding emotional state, and here any spark will already be enough for the new conflict.
To complain of the girlfriend to someone else - a certain way to quarrel
Never discuss a quarrel with mutual friends. They for certain will tell about it to your girlfriend, so, you will be guilty also of complaints to it. There is nothing worse, than to explain that you meant not that at all. Similar situations happen very often, and the relations spoil after that irreparably.
During reconciliation be not boring, transfer of all flaws and shortcomings will not lead to anything good.
Wait at least ten minutes after the quarrel, depart somewhere if it is necessary, cry or shout. Release emotions and begin to be reconciled. Conduct dialogue structurally. If you find possible it for yourself, take the first step. Be ready to compromises, do not cling to trifles and not fundamental issues. The first suggest to forget about insignificant things. It can promote rapprochement. After reconciliation walk together in shopping center, be engaged in shopping or glance in beauty shop. It will strengthen positive emotions, and the quarrel will be forgotten.