Some girls consider that their favourite guy is obliged to be courageous, not sensitive, and is created only to indulge their whims and weaknesses. Actually it not so. Men have weaknesses too, just they are able to transfer female whims with firmness. But to any patience the end sometimes comes and there comes the sad outcome – a quarrel. If you with the young man quarreled not for fun, and really, it is important to find out as soon as possible the cause of a quarrel and to reconcile.
That the quarrel did not reach parting
People sometimes quarrel with each other. But after any quarrel the guy or the girl have to be reconciled. The most popular way to reconcile with darling - sincerely to ask for it apology. If you apologize sincerely, delivering at the same time a good speech, most likely, you receive his forgiveness.
Try to apologize so that your speech really said that you are sorry about deeds. If you want to reconcile, but not finally to swear, do not say at all that your guy himself is guilty of the incident.
One more way of reconciliation with the guy is sending SMS. Write to it that missed and as reconciliation make to it the invitation in restaurant. You can try to download different short verses from the Internet and to send them to the young man. If you want to be original, instead of SMS use the usual letter.
If your guy flared up, do not touch his some time, let he will a little cool down and itself will analyze a situation. On it hour, day can leave, and can be also several days. Behave frostily and wisely, without asking persuasive questions: "Where you? Why you do not talk to me? Did you stop loving me?". During this time look on your quarrel at it with eyes, estimate correctly the situation. Can do it fleeting fit of anger, or you touched a sore subject or offended him a word, behavior? Do you feel the guilt? Look for ways of reconciliation.
Simple, but magic word "forgive"
Really, everything can be solved in a word. It is enough to embrace darling and to admit the guilt. Unfortunately, not all quarrels are solved so simply. It is possible to resort to small female cunning and to give the guy a long-awaited surprise. And let it will be the most silly gift, but your purpose to achieve from darling at least a smile. Invite your guy to a romantic dinner during which apologize. Give the surprise and tell that you do not want to quarrel more. Be not afraid to speak frankly about the feelings to darling. Such evening usually has romantic continuation that will more strong connect your cordial relations. Show the maximum care to the guy. He has to feel that you not less it are upset with a quarrel and wish the fastest reconciliation. The main thing in the relations of two is a mutual understanding and dialogue. Everything can be found out by means of quiet, and sometimes and heated discussion of a problem.
Both parties have to be involved in each dialogue and it is not important who is an initiator of a dispute. It is important that you listened and were heard. So you study each other.
If your guy is dear to you, further try not to make mistakes which provoke quarrels.