The relations between the man and the woman undergo serious changes eventually. Love is succeeded by a habit. Romantic feelings are forced out by household problems. People can still hold hands, but their eyes do not try to catch each other eye any more.
Instruction
1. Fading of the relations in marriage is just inevitable. The human mentality is so arranged. In you the aspiration to something new and novel is put. Very often it leads to family breakdown. That to avoid it, it is necessary to bring in the relations something warm, pleasant and interesting to both spouses. Unfortunately, rather large number of men see romanticism, first of all, only in sex. The routine in a bed kills them. Besides, if to your spouse 40 or more years, this component of family life becomes especially important for it. For this reason men bring mistresses. They want to feel as the real imperious men. Let to it to feel mighty and he is tireless during love joys, and he for you will pull up trees.
2. Try to add more flirtation to your matrimonial communication. You the woman, you are charming. Make eyes at the husband. Remember how you looked at him after your first kiss. Long cohabitation made both of you predictable for each other. Return to yourself a riddle which he, according to it, solved for a long time. After that, most likely, in your partner there will be an interest and former passion again.
3. Try to spend together much time. Men are often sluggish, it is not so simple to tear off them from a favourite chair. Whisper to it on an ear about what magic night expects it after walk, a visit of cinema, visits of restaurant. Do not hesitate to pay it attention in public. It is not necessary to take him by an arm automatically. Embrace the beloved, put his hand to yourself on a waist (if he does not guess before), touch his leg under a restaurant table. Seducing of own husband - business not simple, but an award for it by all means will be the most pleasant.
4. Look together at your photos, videos (record of a ceremony of your wedding will be inappropriate here). Remember together with it emotions which were experienced then. Tell it about the impressions of the first bouquet which he presented you. Remember or think up some secret from that time. Sate your family life with joint entertainments and rest.
5. Try to forget offenses which at you for certain collected for the lived years much. It is known that the woman everything forgives, but forgets nothing, but you after all try to make over yourself effort.
6. If you are a man who needs to make everything to return feelings and emotions to the family, to you will be to make it much more simply. Start over again giving gifts and bouquets to the beloved wife, invite her to appointments, shower with compliments, then success will be provided to you.