Sometimes in the friendly relations there comes such moment when understanding comes that they sputtered out. Certainly, this process is usually painful for both parties if you really valued friendship and were sincere in the relations. The true friend is that person who knows all your secrets, all pluses and minuses.
Instruction
1. Agree with your friend somewhere to meet and talk. It has to be absolutely quiet situation where nobody will disturb you, you have to explain quietly a situation, and your friend still has to and think of how to be farther as this decision is already not new to you at all, and here for the friend it will be news. Of course, it will be hard to make such act, but you have to be taken determination and make it. Take the initiative.
2. In advance carefully think over the course of your conversation. If you really intend to break off finally and irrevocably the relations, do not avoid in a conversation of the last word "farewell". Be not afraid, you already made the decision. Now it is necessary just to decide to tell about it.
3. Do not promise what you will not be able obviously to execute. You should not promise to think and, perhaps, to change the decision or – again to discuss everything at a new meeting. You already made the decision and to be changed or modified it cannot. All your thoughts of similar are only illusions. First it will be hard for you to reconcile to it, but then you are convinced of correctness of the decision. And if you are completely sure that these relations are not necessary to you, do not create illusions and do not hold them by force, pretending that everything is excellent.
4. Both parties have to remember that to revenge because of a gap – not the best act, and in no way it will not help to resolve current situation. It will only aggravate all difficulties in the relations, inspiring in each of you that the gap was the act correct for hundred percent. But also to return everything on the places - too not the best idea, the relations which once cracked ideal will never become again.