Sometimes, that the man tries to offer the woman intimate proximity when she absolutely does not expect it. This offer is in most cases unexpected as the man stating it is not either her husband, or even the lover. If you do not know how it is correct to refuse to the man, read further.
Instruction
1. The male vanity will not suffer from your refusal at all. If you are too hypochondriac, compassionate and indecisive, then the similar offer can plunge you into full confusion. On the one hand you do not want the relations, and with another – are afraid to offend it and hesitate to refuse. There is an inconvenient situation, and not only for you.
2. Believe, for most of men your refusal is not the tragedy at all. You should not think that the man after he is "sent away" will plunge into a depression and will be disappointed in life. No, it will just accept your refusal "as is" and will be accepted to search of the new person who will be more compliant.
3. Resolute adventurers concerning similar situations do not worry at all. On the contrary, their life becomes a little more various from such small adventures. Such women do not torment themselves with doubts, do not think of consequences. It just look for a way to refuse, without giving at the same time direct refusal.
4. There is the first option. On the proposal of the man the woman pretends that she seriously thought and in couple of seconds agrees. The man immediately is lucky it to himself home. On the way she notices little shop or drugstore and asks to stop under a pretext that she needs to buy something. The adventurer gets out of the car happy with herself, waves to the trustful man the handle and disappears in the first lane with mischievous giggling.
5. Option second. The woman pretends that she is pleasantly surprised, begins to coquet, and then answers: "Of course, handsome man! But I cannot now because …". Further there is any invented story. Having encouraged the man and having kissed him at parting, the adventurer leaves, praising herself in soul for resourcefulness.
6. These options of refusal are not absolutely polite. And if more precisely to tell, they are not polite in relation to men at all. Men do not love when they are so "dinamit" here and very much take offense at it. They were deceived, one may say, threw.
7. The woman decent and self-assured will get out of this situation quietly and with advantage. She will think: "I am not going to be raped, this simple sentence therefore aggressively you should not react. I have the right to refuse" and I will make it politely and well".