True love - blessing from above. But that if the man loves you, and you are not interested in him in any way. Such love can become a problem for the girl. The situation can be complicated also by the fact that the guy continues to insist and does not understand yours "no". In case it is the unfamiliar young man, it is much easier to refuse to him than if he was your friend or someone whom you well know. It is quite possible that you have to become stubborn to transfer the point of view. As to refuse to the man, without having offended him and without having touched his feelings?
Instruction
1. To refuse to the guy whom you well know do not give him any hope. Do not use a phrase "I will think" or "Perhaps, then". All this can give hope to the man or he can think that you with it just coquet. Tell it the final answer directly and at once that between you there were no misunderstanding.
2. Support your personal space and do not allow the man to approach you. If it has a habit to approach close you, be a little curved back. Do not allow any touches, do not touch it, do not iron on a back or it can do. Of course, such touches can mean nothing, but only not to the man for whom you are not indifferent. He can apprehend them as he hope for something bigger and will continue to pursue you.
3. Tell it directly that he is pleasant to you as the good friend, but no more than that. You have to convince him that this phase will not change your attitude. Probably, some time you will awkwardly feel, but nevertheless continue to say to it that you appreciate the Platonic relations with it.
4. If you are on the road or in the public place and the man pursues you, continue to go further, ignoring it. In case it begins to shower you with compliments, stop, tell "Thanks" and continue your way. If the man asks you to stop, tell that you cannot because already have to be in such place. Do not look back or stop because such actions can force it to feel differently.
5. Let your thoughts will be expressed by language of your body. If the man tries to stop you or you will not be able to move, turn away from him, showing that you need really to go. If he asks you about an appointment or the phone number, you can download: "I am actually sorry, but I am not interested". As soon as you manage to go further, you leave. If it follows you, constantly repeat it to it. Try to get lost in crowd or change the route.
6. You do not tell him anything if all the rest does not work. Do not give up. It can begin to press on your feelings, for example, asking why you are so cruel. But it only to get sympathy and attention. Ignore it.