The family is under construction on trust. If it is absent, then the incorrectness of one of partners will become only a reason for a gap. The trust is responsibility. If spouses trust each other, so they take the responsibility on implementation of any requirements. There is several advice which will help to restore trust in family after treason.
1. Discuss current situation with the spouse. A talk has to be honest and frank. If you changed, and the spouse noticed it – do not try to suppress the incorrectness fact, it will only aggravate all situation. Admit.
2. Even if to you it was good with other person, ask forgiveness. Promise the second half that you will break the link which arose on the party. If you apologize, so to you not all the same as there will be further family life. Therefore do not try to deceive the spouse, you speak and do everything sincerely.
3. If you do not want a gap in your relations, then convince the half that you love it also your silly mistake – not a reason for parting. Everyone can stumble.
4. Analyze your relations with the partner, think what could lead you into a blind alley. Factors which could push to treason, a set. Try to listen and understand the partner, then at you everything will turn out.
5. Be ready to be responsible for the act. Perhaps, your spouse needs to suspend the relations for some time and to think. It is necessary that the husband (wife) calmed down (las).
6. You have to understand that you need to keep marriage and therefore you any more will never break marital fidelity.
7. If you learned about treason of the darling, do not hide from him it, approach and tell him directly that you it is aware of his act. Look at its reaction. If it rough, so it is still possible to return on the places, but if the second half does not even try to undertake something – it all the same.