Trust – one of the most expensive gifts which the loving people can present each other. At least, it is extremely difficult to deserve it and even more difficult to return. But life is full of temptations and unusual situations which sometimes lead us to mistakes or rash actions. Today we learn how to be credible to the girl or the young man, to win over the second half after acts which caused disappointment of the partner and unwillingness to spend on you the time further.
Loss of trust can bear different character. Here everything depends on features of education and temperament of your partner. One person is able to forgive treason, and another triples scenes of jealousy after the entering message from the fellow worker.
How to regain the trust of the guy?
For a start any incident which caused offense or parting should be discussed in a quiet situation. Certainly, it is worth thinking of possible reaction of your partner in advance. If you know about his pride firsthand, wait a little time, let's it cool down. For a start you have to realize the fact of the fault. Explain to darling motives of your acts, tell about state of mind after deeds. The man interested in your joint future for certain will give you a chance everything to correct. However understand his initial coldness and caution. If the partner does not meet halfway, you should not be humiliated at all, it will push away him even more.
How to regain the trust of the girl?
Here everything is practically also. The young man should take control over a situation, to try to talk to the half and to explain the situation of things. You should not miss from attention the fact that the girl chops off on a root all your efforts only because your miss – great chance to finish the relations which are not necessary to her more. Perhaps, she did not know how to tell you about it directly, and your treason or simple flirtation with other woman helped it.
You should not try to shift fault to another, to try to pay off. It is not necessary to be persuasive, let's the girl calm down and put all the thoughts in order. Nobody cancelled gifts and due consideration which can compensate your mistake a little. Behave surely, without having given to the second half and for a second to doubt your sincerity and repentance.
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