Such unpleasant situation is familiar to some husbands: the wife began to be jealous unjustly. It is worth being late sometimes at work - at once there are suspicions. It is worth mentioning at least for a moment in a conversation some other woman - tears are immediately shed: "I am not necessary to you any more!". After the delivery its figure "blurred", lost former symmetry – in general the real nightmare began. "You stare at others, I do not attract you any more". How to save the wife from jealousy how to regain her trust?
Instruction
1. It is possible "to write off" everything for tendency of women to irrational thinking, to hysterics, of course. But it is better after all to try to understand a situation, having analyzed own behavior. For example, delays at work. Whether really they happened sometimes? Or, maybe, quite often? In that case, even the most loving and trustful wife can have suspicions, and here accuse her of "irrational thinking", especially, in "hysteria", it is impossible.
2. Some husbands do not consider it necessary to devote wives in character and features of the affairs on service, especially, if it is about difficult technical questions. Like, will hardly understand and why "to load" excess information, it has enough affairs. And it is vain! At least in general devote the spouse. Then she will have much less often questions concerning expediency of delays at work.
3. You should not mention in a conversation about other woman even if it is just the colleague. Of course, it is possible to allow when it occurs "for a moment". And if it happened rather often moreover to indispensable underlining of its advantages, here your darling can involuntarily have quite reasonable fears and some mistrust. You remember it and be attentive to the words.
4. The "blurred" figure can drive in a depression even the quietest and judicious woman! She can repeat as much as necessary to herself that it is a small fee for happiness of motherhood, but all the same suffers, looking at young slender seductresses. And if still you stares at them, then it threatens with a depression at all.
5. Again, you can look after the slender girl, admire aloud her beauty purely instinctively, "it" even without thinking of anything, and for the wife it as a knife sharp! Reproaches, tears, suspicions begin.
6. Therefore do not deprive the wife of attention, kind words, compliments. Make her gifts more often even if the most modest, in the form of cards with touching inscriptions. Try not to neglect intimate aspect of life. If the woman feels favourite and desired, she, maybe, also will be jealous, but reasonably! And arisen there was a mistrust quickly will disappear.