Female riddle — the most attractive image for the man. But many ladies make a mistake, trying to disclose completely and as soon as possible to the elect the inner world. How to avoid it and to remain a seductive secret for the second half?
What needs to be avoided
At the first acquaintance to the alleged soulmate the modern women try to keep "in the spirit of the times": it is a little emancipated, frankly, without applying for coquetry. They save the time, issuing about themselves the file instead of hints. They try not to complicate life to young people in hope them not to frighten, sticking to the principle "the regular guy in a board". About what mystery and mysteriousness of the unattainable princess can there be a speech here?
From the very beginning to set right tone, it is not necessary to admit close to heart (it concerns not only men, but also any friends acquaintances). The ability to listen, but not to speak has to become the basic skill which is shown at the first meetings, appointments, walks. It is impossible to burden at once the interlocutor with the family tree, contents of the medical record and chatter about girlfriends. If in own life there are only couple of intriguing, fascinating facts, even they should be stretched, at least, on two times.
Information on itself needs to be issued doses, in the best serial traditions, breaking on the most interesting place and in time leaving. Not to tire the man with household details, not to become the radio working for the sake of a background and, certainly, not to play from itself affected mystery in style of the lady - vamp. These are highlights which need to be avoided.
What needs to be comprehended
Communication with the man of the real female secret, such about which speak "in it something is", up to the end without realizing that, has to remind dance of seven covers. But the last cover never has to be dumped. In the man it is impossible to be dissolved, becoming a faceless shadow, but it is necessary to be slightly the egoist. Such fragile in appearance mademoiselle with a steel core in character. Always to be until the end of not understood, it is necessary to introduce something new in the and his life: change of style, a hairstyle, new dishes, constant aspiration to the most various forms of leisure. It is important to change even a behavior manner: from the delighted trustful girl to the self-sufficient princess. In order that the mystery did not vanish that in the woman the independence and the certain "second life" was felt, it is necessary to be able to find time for himself: the circle of fellow girlfriends, a hobby which completely capture attention at several o'clock, travel, campaigns in SPA, trips to the country, sports activities or a collective sit-round gathering over a cup of tea — all where it is possible to relax without the elect what it is possible to mention casually but not to retell a detail. To keep in itself a riddle, it is necessary to open periodically from the new party, but so that it seemed that this novelty always was inside, and became obvious only thanks to diligent search of the man and only for him.