Unfortunately, time of feeling die away. But, if you stayed together with the partner long enough, having gone through the mill, it is quite natural that after the termination of the novel you will want to remain with it friends.
Instruction
1. If you are sure that feelings passed, it is necessary to admit to the partner it honestly. Do not provoke him the acts to that he threw you, do not wait until he guesses, and take the first step independently, having taken the blame. If you had any reasons to stop loving your half, call them (certainly if they are not too offensive for the partner).
2. If on the offer to remain friends you were refused, do not hurry to be upset. Also it is not necessary to remind constantly the former beloved or the beloved of the friendly intentions, constantly keeping ringing and suggesting to go to cafe – such behavior it can be regarded incorrectly. Release the person, let's it endure your gap.
3. While you do not communicate, you should not tell friends what disgusting person was your former or former. First of all it discredits you in the opinion of people around. And such behavior will obviously not promote establishment of the friendly relations.
4. Try to construct the friendly relations in one or two years after your gap. Just call and tell it like it is: that you missed and would like to meet. At the first meeting avoid a talk on personal subjects, it is unknown how your former half will react to it. Discuss better, books, movies, study, career development of each of you.
5. There are former beloved who easy can discuss with each other the relations with the present partners, sincerely sympathize and give advice. If you want at you the same friendship to turn out, try to ask unostentatiously your new friend as put him on the personal front, or to complain of problems with the friend of an opposite sex. If your former argues on this subject and gives to you advice, so everything is all right. If you noticed that this conversation is unpleasant to him, it is better to pass to neutral subjects.