With approach of festive date in life of our friend there comes also the anticipation of how we will have fun on a celebration. We are sure that we will be surely invited. As strongly we can be upset when this date already came, and so nobody invited us. Can strengthen disappointment also the fact that other guests already received the invitation. In that case the feeling of disappointment can be replaced by feeling of offense and anger. But the main thing is not to get excited! What needs to be considered and what to be convinced of?
First, be surely convinced that you were really not invited. For this purpose it is necessary to verify all your e-mails, accounts in social networks (especially on pages on which you did not come long ago) and all Sms on the mobile phone (especially if them a little). Perhaps, your friend wanted to be this time original and decided to invite you in the non-standard way. Special popularity got now invitation online since it is very convenient, original and it is not banal. For example, one of services on which it is possible to find it online the invitation is a http://invitemyfriend.com service. Perhaps, your friend used it to invite you.
Secondly, reflect over an interesting thought. Whether can be so that the friend did not invite you because he considers you so close that in it just there is no need (we do not invite to a wedding of those with whom we live in one house - they and so there will be). To check it, it is possible just to call the friend and to learn how cases on preparation for a holiday where he will pass, etc. progress. This call can put everything on the places.
Thirdly: and your friend just can checks whether you forgot about date, important for it? Perhaps at the latest moment, he will call you and friendly will lecture, and then will invite. To find out it, in one of a talk with it just shortly mention this date. Then at once it will become clear that you did not forget about it and will not check you sense, so, you receive the invitation.
The fourth: analyze your relations. Whether you quarreled recently? And can you something offended the friend? Or your opinions strongly differed and it was sick? Perhaps, the friend is strongly offended and cannot cross through himself, having invited you. And maybe, intentionally revenges. Anyway, if remembered something, surely contact the friend and sincerely apologize to him, assuring of the friendship. Not the fact that after that you will be invited at once, but the relations with the friend you keep. And the true friend does not harbor a grudge too long, so, you will be on his celebration.
But even if you took all above-stated steps and found out that you were not invited intentionally, do not hurry to delete the friend from the life. Arrive as the true friend. Try not to nurse a grievance and invite the friend to the next event in your life. It can strongly do it to impress.
Anyway, when the best friend did not invite us to a holiday, the first feeling is a resentment. But you remember that the true friendship is cultivated and under construction for years. And if it real, means it will sustain separate offenses and they will not destroy it.