Sometimes women think of whether not to try to renew the relations with former. Bad it is easier forgotten, and good it seems ideal, especially if after a gap you underwent not the best experience with other men.
Instruction
1. First, it is necessary to realize that on old algorithms you will not build up the new relationship, you already time tried, and ended with a gap. You need to become the good actress and to change completely – in a different way to speak, otherwise to think, move and look. Think of school of radio of leaders – there will train you a voice, and it will sound in a different way. In a new way to think, read at least ten deep books, for example, by modern philosophers and thinkers. Movements will change if you go to group of female plasticity. It is also good to change hair color and a figure, a habitual make-up. Your former has to have an impression that he met the new woman.
2. Secondly, you well know it, so, it will be easy for you to build the new relations. But that he was interested in the relations, you need to consider what you can give it it that it will be difficult for it to receive from others. If meanwhile you have nothing to give it, work over acquisition of new qualities. For example, it is possible to register in group of personal growth, to work over the technology of communication and to become easier interlocutor.
3. Thirdly, when you will be prepared, by phone suggest being to meet in the neutral territory like cafe, having stipulated that you will pay for yourself. Try to surprise him with your new image and a manner of communication. If everything is made correctly, he will become interested in such changes and their reasons.
4. Tell that you strongly changed, but your feelings remained invariable and you can give it much more, than earlier. Tell what to start anew it will not turn out and the relations are under construction already not from scratch, but it is worth trying. Further tell that you very much appreciate it and you remember more good, than bad. Let the man time think and make an appointment in few weeks. By this moment its decision for certain will ripen.