"What we have, we do not store, having lost - we cry". Very often people make a mistake about which it is told in a proverb, in the personal relations. If you left the guy, but understood that you got excited - feelings did not pass, and in your heart still there live the love and tenderness for it, then try to correct a situation and to renew the relations.
Instruction
1. Save face. You do not make an impression of the unfortunate, dumped girlfriend, especially the ex-boyfriend should not see you in such state. Keep advantage, and together with it and good mood. Smile even if it turns out hardly. At a meeting with the guy greet kindly and behave quite at ease.
2. Return to sources. Remember how your relations were entered. What in your opinion attracted in you the guy? Become such, as before - lovely and charming. Update a hairstyle, indulge yourself with beautiful clothes. It will lighten you the mood and will increase your appeal. Try to catch sight more often to the ex-boyfriend, communicate with mutual friends - so you will always be aware of the events which are taking place in his life.
3. Analyze mistakes. Analyze your failed relations. What was more - good or bad? Accept for yourself the fact that the relations are finished and if you manage to return the guy, then everything should be begun with the beginning and to try to correct all minuses of the past. Nothing will be any more as before therefore think of ways to correct the relations to the best.
4. Act surely - there is nothing to lose. If parting happened on your initiative, so the guy is offended by you. In this case try to apologize to it for a start. Men love a praise and compliments not less, than the fair sex. The skillful praise and a pleasant compliment can improve the friendly relations with the ex-boyfriend. If at you it turns out to make of him the friend, so he is positive to you, and his feelings can be returned. Choose a successful moment and frankly talk to it about you to sort things out and to find out finally whether you will be able to construct the relations anew or not.