Creation of the family relations is the whole art demanding the thoughtful and patient relation from both partners. However even in the most close-knit families quarrels which can threaten a possibility of continuation of the relations are possible. But you should not put an end to family at once – the wise woman at first will try to find the answer to a question: "How to renew the relations with the husband?".
Instruction
1. To renew the relations with the husband, keep the maximum number of communications. Ask the husband to help about the house, having suggested to perform "primordially man's work", for example, to hang up the shelf acquired by you or to repair any device. At the same time surely emphasize that you extremely highly appreciate the help of the spouse and praise his skill.
2. If you have children, use this thread for renewal of relations with the husband. Ask it to take away children from school or suggest the husband to work with the child any sport. Let it will attend to search of suitable section and takes away it there. Progress of the child in a sports field – an excellent opportunity for joint celebration.
3. Be engaged in self-realization, become interesting and cheerful. Return that bright attractive girl with the burning eyes with whom your spouse once fell in love. Change image, master a new profession, be implemented creatively – all this will allow your husband to look at your relations under a new foreshortening. Shedding tears over bitter destiny, you only alienate from yourself the husband who, as well as all other men perceives female tears as outright blackmail. And blackmail, as is well-known – extremely shaky platform for construction of the joint relations.
4. Make stay of the husband in the house comfortable. Thinking over design of the dwelling, provide any corner (ideally, the separate room) in which your spouse will feel like the individual owner.
5. Talk to the husband. Tell him about what disturbs you, listen to his opinion on this occasion. Often the break in the relations comes when cargo of unexpressed offenses and mutual claims exceeds critical weight. Do not forget – men and women see many things differently therefore disagreements are inevitable. Ability to listen and understand the interlocutor – a basis of the long and strong relations.
6. Return romanticism to the relations. Candles and erotic linen are classics, however it still works. But you should not be obsessed – be not limited to standard set. Show imagination: extreme sex, a joint campaign to mountains, departure on fishing, a campaign for mushrooms or berries – all this brings together and helps to establish strong cordial relations.