After several years of the happy and cloudless relations your man abandons you. You do not understand in what the reason, life, apparently, lost any sense. Whether it is possible to restore the relations with darling and what for this purpose needs to be undertaken?
1. The most important at such moment is to show patience. Usually men abandon the woman only for the sake of new love. But often happens that the romantic relations with the new passion pass soon and feelings cool down. And then the man comes back to the former beloved. Therefore if you were left for the sake of other woman, you do not hurry to make scandals and to call to the aid girlfriends, parents and colleagues. Do not keep ringing endlessly by phone for a showdown. Do not beg him to return. Behave adequately. Perhaps, darling realizes the mistake soon and it will be much easier to take a step back to him if you left without scandals.
2. One more important point — stop to suffer. Do not become isolated on the problem, life did not stop. Communicate with friends, visit interesting places. If there is an opportunity, sign up for some useful courses. If earlier all of you devoted time to darling, then now take care of the own life. Visit salons and gyms, buy new things. It will distract you from gloomy thoughts, positive emotions will return to you, and you will feel taste of life again. And the man will look at you in a different way. He will see before himself the sure beautiful woman to whom there is a wish to return. And here you will already solve, to forgive him or not.
3. Keep in contact with his friends and the family. Let they will see your changes and will tell how you changed. Men are curious and he will want to look at you. Do not refuse a meeting, but do not throw the arms round a neck at once. Let it will fight for you.
4. Do not speak of the former beloved badly. Because your words can go to him. But also, when you reconcile, it will be inconvenient for that dirt which you splashed out in an anger rush the acquaintance.
5. Do not use various bewitching forces, do not resort to various fortune-telling and magic. Even if you will manage to return in such a way darling, then all the same not to restore former feelings. Such relations will not give you joy.