To report about pregnancy to the man – always a difficult task, but even more difficult it becomes if it is necessary to tell about the interesting situation to the guy whom you do not meet any more.
Instruction
1. For a start it is necessary to decide for himself whether it is worth saying to the ex-boyfriend that you expect a baby in general. You can find other person who will agree to accept this kid and to become for him the father, or to bring up the child independently. But if all of you decided that the guy should know that he soon will become a father, there are several councils which will help you to report about it to it an important event. First of all, think of character of the ex-boyfriend. Kind of he apprehended this news? If you know that he loves children, for certain for him there will be joyful this news, and he with pleasure will agree to help the future child. In this case with confidence you call the young man and make an appointment. To tell about this important event, choose uncrowded cafe or the park. Nobody has to prevent or distract you during the conversation. You should not spread at once all information as the guy can be shocked. Pave the way for a conversation better and only then when you understand that he is in good mood, notify it on the pregnancy.
2. If you are not sure that he will apprehend this news favorably, you can address for council someone from close people, for example, the sister or mother, for certain they will help you to make the right decision.
3. Consider the financial position. If you are sure that you will be able to grow up the child independently, it is possible just to notify the guy that he will have a child. It is necessary to add that it is your personal record, you will cope itself, and the young man has nothing to worry, but if he wants, he can support the kid or sometimes see it. And if you are not able to support the child, it is worth thinking of how to be at the correct loss for words for a conversation. Tell the guy what this happiness – to have the own child, let and not from the beloved. Tell that the kid should not suffer from break in relations of the parents, and it should not be reflected in conditions of his education and life.
4. Of course, it is the best of all to give such information at a personal meeting, but if you do not need the help of the young man, you can present him with a fait accompli by phone or, having sent the Sms. Follow these recommendations, and you will be able to avoid sad consequences. But always you remember that the main decision remain only for you therefore listen only to yourself, your future depends on it.